❓ PLP Inquires❓

[lurkingguy1978]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

I left once, for several months. I made it clear here before I left, because I truly had no intention of ever coming back. You can see how well that worked out.

There was a small group of people I maintained contact with away from Lit, but that was it.

That being said, I don't have a contingency plan in place. Which will need to be corrected, like now.

 

[Apisto42]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

1) No. kinda difficult to arrange at this point. If you never hear from me again, just assume that I found the portal to the land of eternal good weather that has gorgeous beaches and I’m living happily ever after. It’ll make you feel good.

2) Yes.



2a) Now you’re wondering which part of the question the “yes” refers to aren’t you?
2*} lists are fun
2*>] “Such fun!”

Ps: of course I’d tell people privately.

 

[tnman03]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

I don’t know to be brutally honest and I won’t lie and say that I won’t do the exact same thing that MattNextDoor did and simply say bye and leave.

I’m fairly certain that if something terminal occurred then one of the few people here who know my particulars would figure it out w/o a lot of detailed stealth work.

And this question does point out the fact that at one time or another for one reason or another all of us here will either leave Lit for a significant number of years or permanently.

 

[beachbaby179]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

I have left once before for a while, and I didn't make a general announcement but I let my important peeps know ahead of time. That was a long time ago.

If I ever do it again, enough of them know how to contact me now outside of Lit, that it wouldn't be an issue. phone, Facebook, email, knock on my door, call my office, whatever.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

I will most like likely just vanish. I doubt many will notice.

 

[JerseyJade]

I will most like likely just vanish. I doubt many will notice.

What he said.

 

[whenagain]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

I don’t, but have been thinking I probably should.

 

[Sanadack]

What he said.

No way to the second part.

 

[Sanadack]

06.06.19 #2

What is the most unexpected thing you've learned from Lit?

How much time people spend on here.

 

[Paul_Chance]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

I keep a detailed "in the event of emergency" letter(s) with two of my friends and my sister. It includes all my accounts and passwords, with instructions in general on when or if to update them by account, and which accounts to scrub and close, as well as who, specifically, to let know what is going on. I update these about on a yearly basis. It also includes all my pins/passwords for various other electronic records.

If I were to leave Lit forever, there are a couple of people I would specifically let know (they have my non-Lit contact information as well), and I would probably post a non-snit "thank you and farewell" message in my signature line.

(Just as an aside - I've assisted in the post-death communication and clean-up for multiple loved ones lost in the last couple of years and I'd encourage all to write all your account information down for relevant social media and other accounts and store it in an "in the event of death or emergency" letter somewhere that can be recovered easily. It is a true pain in the ass to try and reconstruct someone's electronic life and gracefully close it out without that information.)

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

06.08.19

What do you get defensive about??

I have a quick trigger on "just a girl" type treatment. Like, if I feel like I am being condemned for something a man would not be judged for, if my thoughts on a topic are given less value because of being female, or if I am perceived as less capable, weak, or somehow in need of protection where the same assumptions would not be made of a male in the same situation. (Outside of assuming a reduction of say upper body strength when compared to a man of my size and my lack of fitness, of course.) There is no need to apologize to me for swearing, my girly ears will not break. There is no need to treat me more delicately than you would a male, my girly feelings are not fragile. There is certainly no need to judge me more harshly for "bad behavior" that you overlooked in other men. My girliness does not require me to be demure nor compliant and obliging.

I generally don't overact, but if you apologize for your language, I will tease you, while using much more offensive language. And, I will tell you to fuck off and hurl some very offensive language if I hear "A woman should not" as a way to chastise me for how I choose to speak or behave. Damn it, it is either "a person should not" and you walk around chastising men for it too or you are a big ole douche.

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

I have no plan. I am just not that important.

 

[hotwords229_A]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

I would make a thread called "Hotwords says goodbye" and write a simple message thanking everyone for all the amazing erections you gave me.

If I disappear suddenly, then I prefer all of you assume I finally achieved autofellatio and accidentally blew myself to death

 

[JerseyJade]

I would make a thread called "Hotwords says goodbye" and write a simple message thanking everyone for all the amazing erections you gave me.

If I disappear suddenly, then I prefer all of you assume I finally achieved autofellatio and accidentally blew myself to death

Oh good Lord!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I would make a thread called "Hotwords says goodbye" and write a simple message thanking everyone for all the amazing erections you gave me.

If I disappear suddenly, then I prefer all of you assume I finally achieved autofellatio and accidentally blew myself to death

*dies laughing*

Narrator: And that's how PLP died....

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Narrator: S'il vous plaît ne me quitte pas, maîtresse

<refuses to Google French>

 

[lurkingguy1978]

<refuses to Google French>

I think it translates to "Gag, gag, wet slurping noise, gag, thud."

Just guessing.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I think it translates to "Gag, gag, wet slurping noise, gag, thud."

Just guessing.

If you could just... record that for me???

 

[AngelicaS1780]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

1. No, not if something unexpected and final happens. My husband knows about Lit, so I could take Paul's good advice and have an emergency list with my login info and the names of the few people with whom I am close.

2. I would let my friends know.

 

[AlwaysFara]

06.08.19

What do you get defensive about??

Anything my ex says.

 

[AlwaysFara]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

Between social media, my in the flesh Lit people, and my guy, I’m sure I have it covered.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Oh? And I would probably just leave, but again, my close friends would know.
I’m not big on goodbye posts. They don’t stick.

 

[AlpineFresco]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

I've had a contingency in place for a while now on point one.
Point two? I'd let my friends on here know, probably via Skype, but that's all.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

If I decided to leave, I would do like a friend did recently and send PMs to a few people saying why I was leaving.

If something catastrophic happens, my login info for various websites is available in my diary which my son has instructions to destroy after he sends a notification to the Moderator to suspend the account.

 

[AnnieLit]

If something catastrophic happens, my login info for various websites is available in my diary which my son has instructions to destroy after he sends a notification to the Moderator to suspend the account.

Wow! I guess there is an adventage in having adult kids. Can't even imagine trusting mine with anything like that, I am sure they will be here reading the first chance they got. Not sure I will trust even me not to peek.

 

[AnnieLit]

06.08.19

What do you get defensive about??

Tried and tried to think about it and came up with nothing. Or more like, nothing coming from strangers and people I don't care much about. From those I do care about, it can be anything at all. Good thing there are very few of those