❓ PLP Inquires❓

[base10]

People that play the victim for something that’s essentially their fault rather than take responsibility.

This times 1 million. You want the benefit when things go well, you also accept the responsibility if it doesn't. Be an adult.

 

[Ask For More]

06.13.19

We've talked about people we respect...

What makes you lose respect for someone?

Anyone dissing the Backstreet Boys will have to work hard to regain respect from me.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Anyone dissing the Backstreet Boys will have to work hard to regain respect from me.

https://youtu.be/4fndeDfaWCg

 

[Ask For More]

https://youtu.be/4fndeDfaWCg

You have my respect.

 

[AlwaysFara]

You have my respect.

 

[lovetopleasewomen]

06.10.19

Inspired but the last AudioPhiles episode...

Do you have a contingency plan to let your important Lit people know if something happens to you?
If you decide to leave Lit forever (not a tantrum quit), will you let people know or just... vanish...?

~poof~

I would make a thread called "Hotwords says goodbye" and write a simple message thanking everyone for all the amazing erections you gave me.

Yea. I wouldn't relate to that one.

06.12.19

If you could be anywhere in the world right now for the rest of the day, where would you go? You can't take or leave anything and no one will notice your absence.

India

06.13.19

We've talked about people we respect...

What makes you lose respect for someone?

When someone puts down a group, women, for instance, and then says, Oh, I didn’t mean you! You’re different!

Suck it.

Like JJade says, anyone who hurts my friends, purposely.

Anyone who doesn’t respect my boundaries.

That’s about it. I don’t respect too many people to begin with. I like a lot of people, and would have a beer with them, but respect is harder to earn.

For me, it's all about how they treat other people. If you're an asshole for no reason other than that's who you are? No respect. Taking advantage of others? No respect. Being selfish, while knowing that hurts someone who did nothing wrong? No respect.

I can't look at someone knowing that they treat people poorly and respect them even a little. Professionally or personally.

And that sucks. Because you have to EARN my respect first. It's not freely given, ever. So if earn it and THEN lose it? Fuck you.

Two faced people. People who aren’t genuine. Those who are mean to others just for the hell of it. Those people lose my respect very quickly.

Yep.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

06.17.19

Sex.
Do you prefer quality over quantity or vice versa? Is there a limit to that trade off? (I.e. good sex once a month is fine but once a year? Where is that line?)

 

[AnnieLit]

06.17.19

Sex.
Do you prefer quality over quantity or vice versa? Is there a limit to that trade off? (I.e. good sex once a month is fine but once a year? Where is that line?)

That's a hard one... Both, please?
I think I would still go with quantity - I NEED it daily in some shape or form. And good sex... few times a year should do it.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

06.17.19

Sex.
Do you prefer quality over quantity or vice versa? Is there a limit to that trade off? (I.e. good sex once a month is fine but once a year? Where is that line?)

That's a hard one... Both, please?
I think I would still go with quantity - I NEED it daily in some shape or form. And good sex... few times a year should do it.

I'm with Annie. BOTH!

Quantity tends to lead to quality. Otherwise you get bored. Creative lovers, getting regular sex will tend to bring up the quality through experience.

Something every day, really good sex regularly, great sex every couple of weeks

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

06.17.19

Sex.
Do you prefer quality over quantity or vice versa? Is there a limit to that trade off? (I.e. good sex once a month is fine but once a year? Where is that line?)

I require deep emotional connection. Without it, the other two don't matter.

 

[AnnieLit]

Quantity tends to lead to quality.

Unfortunately, this is not always the case. Sometimes one of the parters just does not have it in him(her), what the other one needs for great sex. No matter how much sex you have, you can't make your partner be more dominant than they are. They can pretend for your sake and maybe even enjoy "the game", but their limits will always be way below what you really want.

 

[AnnieLit]

I require deep emotional connection. Without it, the other two don't matter.

Why does it have to be without the connection? But having it still does not guarantee great sex. Or for you it does?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Why does it have to be without the connection? But having it still does not guarantee great sex. Or for you it does?

Never had either, so i can't say.

 

[lurkingguy1978]

Quality is important. As is quantity, as anyone with a high libido knows.

There is a balance...it really depends on the partner. For me, quality matters more...as long as it happens more than once or twice a month. Less than that and it becomes a deep irritant to me. Which is why I'm often irritated.

EDIT: This is my own personal experience...I know others will have far different points of view. Which is why I love this thread.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Unfortunately, this is not always the case. Sometimes one of the parters just does not have it in him(her), what the other one needs for great sex. No matter how much sex you have, you can't make your partner be more dominant than they are. They can pretend for your sake and maybe even enjoy "the game", but their limits will always be way below what you really want.

Then I guess I'm just very lucky.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Quality is important. As is quantity, as anyone with a high libido knows.

There is a balance...it really depends on the partner. For me, quality matters more...as long as it happens more than once or twice a month. Less than that and it becomes a deep irritant to me. Which is why I'm often irritated.

...

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Then I guess I'm just very lucky.

You are.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

06.17.19

Sex.
Do you prefer quality over quantity or vice versa? Is there a limit to that trade off? (I.e. good sex once a month is fine but once a year? Where is that line?)

Well of course, ideally both, but if I had to choose between a fairly decent amount of mediocre sex (like idk 4 or 5 times a week) but never a really good fucking, or really good fucking once a month and very limited quantity of mediocre sex in between, I'd take the monthly really good fucking. I can get off better, more, and more efficiently than mediocre sex by myself, so I can fill the gap. Really good fucks are something I just can't duplicate alone.

 

[AnnieLit]

Then I guess I'm just very lucky.

Yes, you are

 

[AngelicaS1780]

06.17.19

Sex.
Do you prefer quality over quantity or vice versa? Is there a limit to that trade off? (I.e. good sex once a month is fine but once a year? Where is that line?)

Ideal world?
Great sex at least monthly, good sex at least weekly, some type of play almost daily.
Sigh.

 

[AlpineFresco]

06.17.19

Sex.
Do you prefer quality over quantity or vice versa? Is there a limit to that trade off? (I.e. good sex once a month is fine but once a year? Where is that line?)

I've never had quantity, so I'll take that. There are things you can't learn without time, and that's quite frustrating.

 

[UgliestSon]

You dudes are too picky. It’s fucking. Kinda like pizza even the bad is pretty good.

 

[AlpineFresco]

You dudes are too picky. It’s fucking. Kinda like pizza even the bad is pretty good.

You've clearly never had pizza at JFK. Fucking disgusting.

 

[UgliestSon]

You've clearly never had pizza at JFK. Fucking disgusting.

Actually yes. It was not that bad but I was either drunk or hungover or both.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Actually yes. It was not that bad but I was either drunk or hungover or both.

So both....