❓ PLP Inquires❓

[The_gladiator]

06.17.19

Sex.
Do you prefer quality over quantity or vice versa? Is there a limit to that trade off? (I.e. good sex once a month is fine but once a year? Where is that line?)

They both matter, but with how much release sooths my anxiety, and helps me sleep I have to go with quantity. Though it depends on how frequent the quality would be, so if I could have good sex every other day or so verses ok sex daily, I’d go with the good, but if that good was weekly or less verses ok daily, that’d be harder... I do like angellica’s answer though a lot. I honestly don’t need it to be all out amazing everytime but something daily would be so wonderful

 

[inkandiridiumnibs]

06.13.19

We've talked about people we respect...

What makes you lose respect for someone?


Sex.
Do you prefer quality over quantity or vice versa? Is there a limit to that trade off? (I.e. good sex once a month is fine but once a year? Where is that line?)

TBH, not walking the talk. I have recently been finding people's words, do not match their actions. I don't mean the usual BS we see all over the place, but I am talking about people I came to respect because I thought I had come to know them as people who followed their words with action. Or spinning their actions by being misleading with their words, to hide their real intent. Saying something like "I support Planned Parenthood", but then you find out, they are knowingly and supporting the signing of a petition to have PP shut down, "Because all they do is abortions"...

Before my injury, it was all about Balance...and as often as we were both up for it. After my injury, well, my partner was not accepting so much of the consequences of trying to have sex. It was no longer fulfilling, nor satisfactory. As for any kind of line, my Ex felt like everything was based on time, like it needed to be scheduled. I had come to find out towards the end, she was actually marking her calendar for the days we didn't do anything. Didn't matter if they were days I could barely get out of bed, let alone move around. As for me, I don't put stock in the "time" aspect. When things are working right, then it is often, when things aren't working right, then take it as it comes and appreciate it more.

 

[AveryElle]

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[AveryElle]

Also, people here keep espousing communication as key. I think it can hinder. The more you talk about certain things, the more talked out they are and then I lose interest. Time WITH someone can often overwhelm me. Yeah I’m weird!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Also, people here keep espousing communication as key. I think it can hinder. The more you talk about certain things, the more talked out they are and then I lose interest. Time WITH someone can often overwhelm me. Yeah I’m weird!

No you're not. You just have a different need level in that area.

 

[AveryElle]

I’m an introvert. It’s very rare for me to NOT get sick of being with someone! Sex is part of that - I can very easily fuck for a bit, lie around in bed with a partner, and then go home. Or send him back home. I like space and silence. Maybe because I so rarely have it!

 

[barefootgirl69]

*mulls this over*

For almost 20 years I lived with mediocre sex with as much quantity as I wanted...never again.

I'm not looking for FANTASTIC sex every single night, but...if I can't have quality atleast a few times a month mixed with satisfying sex several times a week, forget it.

 

[Sexybritches69]

I’d take mind blowing sex infrequently over a lot of mediocre sex. Memories of the quality sex last a long long time and will fuel my fantasies. I’ll enjoy remembering every scrumptious moment.

 

[L3gacy]

I’d take mind blowing sex infrequently over a lot of mediocre sex. Memories of the quality sex last a long long time and will fuel my fantasies. I’ll enjoy remembering every scrumptious moment.

What she said. Very true. Memories last and leave a mark

 

[AlwaysFara]

06.17.19

Sex.
Do you prefer quality over quantity or vice versa? Is there a limit to that trade off? (I.e. good sex once a month is fine but once a year? Where is that line?)

Quality.

But I agree with Jay on the pizza/sex thing, to a point.
Bad sex is awful.
Bad pizza is still pretty good.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

I’m an introvert. It’s very rare for me to NOT get sick of being with someone! Sex is part of that - I can very easily fuck for a bit, lie around in bed with a partner, and then go home. Or send him back home. I like space and silence. Maybe because I so rarely have it!

I rarely have space and quiet, but in all other respects listed, i am at the other end of the spectrum. We're all just different.

Quality.

But I agree with Jay on the pizza/sex thing, to a point.
Bad sex is awful.
Bad pizza is still pretty good.

Preach.

I don't think i even know what bad pizza is, but I've had some pretty shitty sex!

 

[lurkingguy1978]

I look at pizza like I look at blowjobs. The worst one I have had of each was still pretty damned good.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

"Sex is like pizza - if you're going to use barbecue sauce you'd better know what the fuck you're doing." - Somebody Else

But to answer the question, I think Sexybritches's's response is spot-on. I'd rather have mind-blowing, teeth-shattering sex every now and again and have something awesome to think about during the in-between. A steady diet of ho-hum sex just seems like it'd get boring quick.

 

[Paul_Chance]

06.17.19

Sex.
Do you prefer quality over quantity or vice versa? Is there a limit to that trade off? (I.e. good sex once a month is fine but once a year? Where is that line?)

After thinking about it for a bit and reflecting on past relationships I’m going with quantity over quality. An orgasm is an orgasm, though it may vary in the peak experience even at the base level they’re all pretty good.

(If you’ve never had bad pizza, you just haven’t had enough pizza from enough places. The same holds true with sex, if you never bad sex, you just haven’t had enough sex with enough people.)

 

[AlwaysFara]

After thinking about it for a bit and reflecting on past relationships I’m going with quantity over quality. An orgasm is an orgasm, though it may vary in the peak experience even at the base level they’re all pretty good.

(If you’ve never had bad pizza, you just haven’t had enough pizza from enough places. The same holds true with sex, if you never bad sex, you just haven’t had enough sex with enough people.)

Maybe “bad sex” is different for some of us. Abusive. Hateful.

I’ll take a frozen pizza in a microwave over that.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Maybe “bad sex” is different for some of us. Abusive. Hateful.

I’ll take a frozen pizza in a microwave over that.

Yeah, I would take the frozen pizza too. Abuse and hate should never be part of a relationship.

When it comes to my choice of quantity over quality I’m thinking along a normal distribution curve. If one in ten sexual encounters is particularly intense, then in any 30 day window, you’ll be getting at least three intense encounters. So you kind of get the best of both worlds aware.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Maybe “bad sex” is different for some of us. Abusive. Hateful.

I’ll take a frozen pizza in a microwave over that.

Also orgasm-free.

You guys are pretty much guaranteed release. Not all of us women are, without some kind of effort being made.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Also orgasm-free.

You guys are pretty much guaranteed release. Not all of us women are, without some kind of effort being made.

 

[Paul_Chance]

Also orgasm-free.

You guys are pretty much guaranteed release. Not all of us women are, without some kind of effort being made.

Yes, and I know that influenced my answer, especially about that lower orgasm threshold.

 

[lurkingguy1978]

Also orgasm-free.

You guys are pretty much guaranteed release. Not all of us women are, without some kind of effort being made.

The effort is soooo worth it.

 

[UgliestSon]

I look at pizza like I look at blowjobs. The worst one I have had of each was still pretty damned good.

This dude knows what’s up. I have had schoolhouse pizza in a bowling alley and it was still pretty goddamn good. I had already knocked back a few pitchers of beer and a few shots of Southern Comfort so maybe that was a factor.

Come to think of it I think I got a blow job from the shoe return gal that night too.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Maybe “bad sex” is different for some of us. Abusive. Hateful.

I’ll take a frozen pizza in a microwave over that.

When I think about bad sex I might think of disappointing or unenthusiastic sex. Abusive or traumatic sex... does that even qualify as sex?

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

06.18.19

So... pizza...

What are your go-to toppings for your perfect pizza??

 

[Paul_Chance]

06.18.19

So... pizza...

What are your go-to toppings for your perfect pizza??

I'm old-school and simple when it comes to pizza. Pepperoni, cheese, and sauce. Nothing fancy. If it's like a special occasion pizza I might add sausage.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

06.18.19

So... pizza...

What are your go-to toppings for your perfect pizza??

Sausage, peppers, and onions. Preferably on a thin crust.