Female Lit authors: How much unsolicited sexual advances have you dealt with as a result of your writing?

[Voboy]

Just removed every post from the thread and I'm referring the matter to Laurel.

Good.

He was not overly impressive as a member of a community of erotica writers.

 

[lovecraft68]

This thread made me think of a real blast from the past.

To any female poster here, if you don't recall when Handsinthedark was on this board consider yourself fortunate. By far the most disturbing creep that ever appeared in this forum.

 

[pink_silk_glove]

This thread made me think of a real blast from the past.

To any female poster here, if you don't recall when Handsinthedark was on this board consider yourself fortunate. By far the most disturbing creep that ever appeared in this forum.

So you admit that the place has gotten better.

 

[AlexBailey]

I get solicitations from time to time - only three were through story feedback via email. They were fairly respectful invitations with contact info and messages to the effect of “we have a lot in common message me if you’re interested…”

On the forum my avatar has attracted salacious comments - for myself I admit that’s part of the point. I like that kind of attention, it’s definitely part of my many kinks though I’ve got some conflicting feelings and thoughts about it.

On one hand I don’t think it’s right to say someone deserves a certain kind of attention because of how they present, while on the other hand I like the attention I get when I present provocatively.

Presenting in a non-gender conforming way adds other complications as well. There have been a few guys who hit me up for sex chat who didn’t seem to get that I’m not cis fem until I spelled it out.

 

[BobbyLaker]

another shoutout to proton mail - I migrated there from gmail after one too many "fuck you you can't log in because you're from a new ip address and we're going to force you to doxx yourself to gain access"

Proton is very low effort. I like it.

+1 for Protomail

 

[onehitwanda]

Damn, I go to sleep and wake up to everyone defending me, lol. You lot are pretty fucking awesome.

it's cos we love you, hon

 

[lovecraft68]

So you admit that the place has gotten better.

A case of addition by subtraction.

 

[AchtungNight]

I don't do cyber or sexting because it's a waste of time. The time I spend having cyber sex I could be having real sex or writing stories!

I’m the same way.

 

[silkstockingslover]

Over the years I have had a few quirky situations, although very rare considering the amount of time I have been on lit.

I’ve had at least a dozen dicks sent to me, even more if you include my Twitter.
I’ve been offered to go down and meet people, mostly men, but a couple of times couples or women on likely a dozen occasions.
I’ve been told I’m a slut, a bitch, going to bell and more.

In the end, like Twitter, it’s an open forum and it happens.

 

[Bamagan]

Over the years I have had a few quirky situations, although very rare considering the amount of time I have been on lit.

I’ve had at least a dozen dicks sent to me, even more if you include my Twitter.
I’ve been offered to go down and meet people, mostly men, but a couple of times couples or women on likely a dozen occasions.
I’ve been told I’m a slut, a bitch, going to bell and more.

In the end, like Twitter, it’s an open forum and it happens.

I cannot imagine a fate more dire than going to (taco) bell. You have my condolences.

 

[StillStunned]

I’ve had at least a dozen dicks sent to me, even more if you include my Twitter.
I’ve been offered to go down and meet people, mostly men, but a couple of times couples or women on likely a dozen occasions.
I’ve been told I’m a slut, a bitch, going to bell and more.

I really don't understand the thought process here.

"Here's photo of my cock! Want to have sex?"
"No thanks."
"You don't want to have sex with me? You must be a slut!"

 

[Kumquatqueen]

I've only had one dick pic in my life, which was from Lit. (No, I'm not feeling the lack!)

I did get a lot of guys saying they liked my stories and they would submit to me and do 'anything' I wanted. Oddly, this was before I wrote any femdom stuff, and my BDSM stories all had a female bottom/sub...

Invariably the conversation went "OK then, read (my most recent story) and tell me what you think."
"No, not like that." There were a few exceptions, when someone actually did read a story.

It got to the point I removed my sex from my profile, which has got rid of 95% of contacts, but now over 50% of contacts are reasonable communicators, not just wanting to get off from sending dirty messages to a woman.

 

[AlexBailey]

I just received another PM dick pic, not that I mind.

 

[Bamagan]

I just received another PM dick pic, not that I mind.

For a moment, I thought that stood for 'post-modern,' and was briefly intrigued.

 

[Djmac1031]

For a moment, I thought that stood for 'post-modern,' and was briefly intrigued.

Post Modern Dick Pics.

Kinda like Post Modern Jukebox, but instead of remaking new songs in old styles, they take High Def dick pics and make them out of focus and grainy.

 

[Bamagan]

Post Modern Dick Pics.

Kinda like Post Modern Jukebox, but instead of remaking new songs in old styles, they take High Def dick pics and make them out of focus and grainy.

 

[Djmac1031]

Nailed it.

 

[Bamagan]

Nailed it.

Oh, you want nails. Michelangelo can deliver...

 

[MediocreAuthor]

 

[Zootonius]

I recall a SNL skit about the model for Michelangelo's David and everyone making small dick jokes about him.

 

[AlexBailey]

I recall a SNL skit about the model for Michelangelo's David and everyone making small dick jokes about him.

Right? The first time I was with two girls they said how I looked like the statue of David.

On one hand it was flattering…

 

[Djmac1031]

I recall a SNL skit about the model for Michelangelo's David and everyone making small dick jokes about him.

Maybe it was just cold in the studio.

 

[Bamagan]

I recall a SNL skit about the model for Michelangelo's David and everyone making small dick jokes about him.

I wonder if anyone has written a gay David and Goliath fanfic about their relative lengths and girths

 

[Bamagan]

Maybe it was just cold in the studio.

On the upside, he's hard as a rock

 

[Djmac1031]

I wonder if anyone has written a gay David and Goliath fanfic about their relative lengths and girths

The moral of the story; it's not about length or girth, its about what you can do with your stones.