Wash / Oregon Roll Call

[armyjim_2000]

WHOA!!!!! FIVE YEARS??????

Hmmm...you say you are happy though, so it must not be a problem. Of course, I can't imagine that. Going five years without an orgasm with my significant other would be like asking me to count out a million dollars...in pennies! Of course, I'm male, so asking me to go one HOUR without an orgasm is like that....LOL!

Can you say "KABOOM"? I knew you could...

 

[emma:o)]

5 years without an orgasm

 

[SSSA]

I guess, like everyone else, I am interested to know if you can orgasim with other men, or on your own?


-SSSA

 

[mkreshon]

Hope I'm not to late to put in my two cents. I'm from Salem, OR and thought something like this would be kind of cool.

 

[SSSA]

New rule

Can I propose a new rule????

Until we all get to know one another better, can we post our 'information' at the bottom of our posts so we can get an idea of who each person is, and where they are at?


-SSSA
25, MWM, Seattle.

 

[Seattle1120]

Good Idear

My vitals:

SWM, 38, Seattle

 

[Jacqline]

roll call

dwf, 50, Seattle .........Young in looks and attitude Just looking for friends out here

 

[iceprincess]

 

[Jaydoes]

I'll try to answer everybodies burning questions starting by saying, no I have never had an orgasm, not even alone, and yes, I have mastrubated and tried numerous techniques.


I have to say that I don't really believe late blooming hormones is the problem here....anyone should be able to have an orgasm and most especially a 23 year old who is nearing the peak of her sexual life....My guess would be, especially from what you say about your life...that we have a psychological issue going on here..from a man's point I know that when there are a lot of issues going on in your life...erections can be problem..and when you remove those stresses or deal with them effectively..its no longer a problem....the same thing goes for orgasms...I think perhaps you have some blockages that are preventing you from gettinng where you need to be....fix them and you fix the problem...


swm, 41, astoria, oregon

 

[emma:o)]

orgasms and posting rule

 

[Jacqline]

Orgasms and posting rule

I think that Jaydoes is onto something........stress and/ or psychological problems can keep one from climaxing. Have you ever treated yourself to a massage? ( With a licensed massage therapist). I am almost willing to bet that if you put yourself into their hands ( 1 1/2 hour massage would be fantastic) and you just let yourself go, and totally relax, you would have one there. There doesn't have to be anything sexual about it, it is just the fact that you totally relax and let yourself feel the pampering. It's worth a shot! ( If people were honest with you, I bet they would admit that they, also, have had orgasms while getting a perfectly innocent massage as I have).

dwf, 50, Seattle

 

[SSSA]

My experience

Everyone has had really valid points. As a guy at or near my sexual prime, I can concur with the theory that emotional stress takes it toll on a guy and I would assume it does on a woman too. I know when I can't clear my head of stressfull thoughts and so on, I have real issues in the bedroom.

To further back that up, the massage idea is valid. I am not a huge proponent of massage, but I do enjoy a good accupuncture treatment occasionally. When I have had a good treatment, and I am totally relaxed, I find that that evening, I am MUCH better off in the bedroom. It makes a huge difference.

However.......I have also found that I have a much much easer time bringing an older woman to orgasm than younger woman. I have been told that can be due to the fact that most older women are more in touch with their bodies. Not sure if that is true or not. The few times I have been with younger women that don't typically reach orgasm...it seemed like what worked best was getting them relaxed and lots of oral stimulation

Just my $.02 worth.

SSSA

MWM, 25, Seattle

 

[Gìñgèrßlúë]

Hello to Everyone. I've tried three different times to create a real group of people having the same interests or inkling to share information in the Wash/Ore. area..******* or as a meeting group of people. I'm pleased to see that finally an answer comes through the woods. I look foreward to what comes of this.

 

[mkreshon]

I'm a white male 28 yrs. old

 

[SSSA]

Hi Ginger

Hey Ginger, can you let us know where you are from, how old you are and all that good stuff?

Welcome to the PacNW list!!

 

[Gìñgèrßlúë]

Thank you for the greetings. I'm 36, living in a little burb between Eugene and Medford. Like being outdoors, sharing opinions, views and listening to others speak their minds. Love museums, everything that oregon offers from trees to towns. Mom of four , in relationship that is stagnating and find that I really enjoy the d part of d/s ~smiles~

 

[SSSA]

Wow Ginger! Now THAT is an introduction that I'd like to raise my glass to!!

Or, as it may be, ASK you if it is okay to raise my glass to

 

[SSSA]

Wow Ginger! Now THAT is an introduction that I'd like to raise my glass to!!

Or, as it may be, ASK you if it is okay to raise my glass to

-SSSA

MWM, 25, Seattle

 

[iceprincess]

la

 

[JackofMyTrade]

Relax

Ginger. Welcome, Well said.

For all the locals (Portland area and Vancouver area), there is a swingers club that I have attended twice now. It's fun and well worth going to if you really want to explore your wilder side. You don't have to do anything, you can watch. I had a blast watching a couple having sex on the pool table after one of the funniest games of pool that you've ever seen.


I've been married for 10 years. Three kids and have found that being relaxed is a major part of sex. Problems and other parts of life that make themselves felt at those intimate moments will inevitably ruin the moment.

Try a hot tub, let the jets work on you while your husband assists. If nothing else, it will be fun.

On a more medical note, there are documented cases where a woman was simply physically unable to orgasm. Have you seen a doctor on this?

On another note, there is viagra. It works for both men and women, increasing blood flow to the area and assisting with climax.


- Jack

31 MWM Vancouver

 

[wally9235]

Is it possable you and your hubby have not found the thing that gets you Going.

I am guessing you have tried Porn, Pics of your self, and may be even role play.

My wife is not in to this stuff but by being Here i am guessing that
you have tried.

Well Keep at It!


39 /m/ Eugene, Oregon
wally9235@hotmail.com

 

[coasting]

I don't want this to fall off the world.

DWM...43....Central Oregon Coast

 

[Jacqline]

Pacific Northwest

Coasting, you live in the most wonderful area........I love the Oregon Coast and go there every chance I get............I have an aunt that lives On the beach in Lincoln City...............what a view..................the best sunsets as well...........the ocean is my favorite place....................

dwf, 50,Seattle

 

[emma:o)]

the oregon coast

its so good to hear that our coast is also represented on here and its also good to hear that non oregonians enjoy and appreciate our coast and what it has to offer... it is a beautiful place and i think a lot of people are missing out when they dont or havent gone there.. welcome coaster!

hope everyone is having a wonderful day!


emma

24/f/oregon

 

[SSSA]

I agree. I used to have a family memeber that lived in Lincoln City and I spent many summers there, flying kites and going up to get taffy!!!

Lovely part of the world.


SSSA
25. MWM, Seattle