Why do you choose to be a sub?

[Strixaluco]

It is almost universally conceded that the larger cock is superior to the smaller one. I have never sucked a cock smaller than my own. I have never even SEEN a cock smaller than my own pathetic little 3 inch penis. I have never heard of anyone having a preference for small cocks.

Then again cock size is not all that matters in who is dominating.

 

[traill]

Its a complex dynamic im just learning about. I cant claim to understand it better than anyone.

Then it might be best to not present your views as fact if it's something you're brand new to, respectfully.

 

[sweettalk4u]

I've always disliked the "It's not a choice for me" concept. I understand that many feel their submission is more "pure" or "real" if there's no other option - but not so. Acknowledging that is a choice, raises the value of submission far above a submission that "can't be helped." Acknowledging the choice also makes it more about a specific dominant rather than the next one that happens to come along.

My first time 40 years ago he was dominant so I was submissive even though I’m a dominant in the day to day world
I learned a lot about both as a sub and a Dom

 

[Strixaluco]

I've always disliked the "It's not a choice for me" concept. I understand that many feel their submission is more "pure" or "real" if there's no other option - but not so. Acknowledging that is a choice, raises the value of submission far above a submission that "can't be helped." Acknowledging the choice also makes it more about a specific dominant rather than the next one that happens to come along.

It is possible for it to be about specific dominant, and yet not to have it as a choice. I couldn't submit to the just anyone - just like I couldn't have just anyone as a partner for life. I need that special person that gets that side out of me, otherwise I am not happy, even having difficulties in finding a balance in my life. It also goes hand in hand with other feelings.

I don't give a damn about pure or real, I have even happily called myself semi-vanilla. But upon meeting my current dom... Damn, it was a life-altering moment and I didn't even believe those happen in that fashion! (And then I found out I am much more of a sub I ever thought I'd be.)

 

[Goldenfinger]

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[K0fcali]

It is almost universally conceded that the larger cock is superior to the smaller one. I have never sucked a cock smaller than my own. I have never even SEEN a cock smaller than my own pathetic little 3 inch penis. I have never heard of anyone having a preference for small cocks.

Most women recieve pleasure from the first 3 inches of penetration. Inside the womb there are far less nerve endings.

 

[K0fcali]

Then it might be best to not present your views as fact if it's something you're brand new to, respectfully.

I understand.

 

[IrisAlthea]

Most women recieve pleasure from the first 3 inches of penetration. Inside the womb there are far less nerve endings.

I don’t think those posts about cock size are inspired by interest in women/vaginas.

 

[sterculius]

Most women recieve pleasure from the first 3 inches of penetration. Inside the womb there are far less nerve endings.

I don't think it's merely a matter of stimulating nerve endings but rather the sensation of fullness and of being penetrated to the core. An awareness of being well and truly fucked. This is the way I feel with a thick cock forced all the way down my throat. I love the sensation of being stuffed completely full of cock.

 

[K0fcali]

I don't think it's a matter of stimulating nerve endings but rather a sensation of fullness and of being penetrated to the core. An awareness of being well and truly fucked. This is the way I feel with a thick cock forced all the way down my throat.

I have yet to experience that. But i understand its not about size neceasarily. Dominant/submissive roles are an aspect of all relationships not just m/f or m/m but f/f as well. I get that large cocks do look superior. I think i would dominate or submit naturally according to the given situation. I am certain there are small dick guys out there that command as much if not more respect and obedience.

 

[Strixaluco]

Most women recieve pleasure from the first 3 inches of penetration. Inside the womb there are far less nerve endings.

If even a big cock goes inside the womb, there is something VERY peculiar with the cock or the womb in question, or both. Get your anatomy straight, man!

 

[K0fcali]

Because submitting to a man and seeing him sexual desires satisfied because of me is a huge turn on for me.

***j,n+++11

If even a big cock goes inside the womb, there is something VERY peculiar with the cock or the womb in question, or both. Get your anatomy straight, man!

Cervix uterus? Whatever man im sleepy.

 

[Strixaluco]

***j,n+++11

Cervix uterus? Whatever man im sleepy.

The cock never enters the cervix, it may just hit it from the outside. The only time there's a cock in within the cervix is when a baby boy is born.

 

[staciedix]

In my experiences dealing with submissives, submission is less of a choice and more of an awakening. In my opinion, once you have that awakening, you will always be submissive whether or not you choose to embrace it or act on it. I definitely concur with you that the sex is better.

Early training as a submissive sets it deep inside and the memory creates an identity even for a man

 

[Strixaluco]

Early training as a submissive sets it deep inside and the memory creates an identity even for a man

For many the awakening comes first, training only because of that awakening.

 

[K0fcali]

The cock never enters the cervix, it may just hit it from the outside. The only time there's a cock in within the cervix is when a baby boy is born.

I have studied the the individual parts of female reproductive anatomy.

 

[K0fcali]

***j,n+++11

Cervix uterus? Whatever man im sleepy.

Like i said i was tired. People go to church and worship marys vagina their whole lives unaware what they are praying to.

 

[IrisAlthea]

The cock never enters the cervix, it may just hit it from the outside.

And there is no lack of nerve endings there.

 

[Strixaluco]

And there is no lack of nerve endings there.

That is true! In good and bad. I don't like it if my cervix is really banged.

 

[IrisAlthea]

That is true! In good and bad. I don't like it if my cervix is really banged.

I tend to like it, but there is definitely a line where it is more tolerable than enjoyable and then another line where it is too much.

 

[Strixaluco]

I tend to like it, but there is definitely a line where it is more tolerable than enjoyable and then another line where it is too much.

I don't even tolerate my nipples being pinched, so no wonder I tend to go over from tolerable to turn-off rather quickly when it regards my cervix.

Can't remember one single time when it would have been enjoyable, it has been tolerable at best.

 

[drobert44]

I was a sub for one gay man, such a charmer! Doubt if I would ever be with another man, maybe a sissy.

 

[K0fcali]

Like i said i was tired. People go to church and worship marys vagina their whole lives unaware what they are praying to

That is true! In good and bad. I don't like it if my cervix is really banged.

Thanks love. Im sure some women might enjoy that but most do not.

 

[K0fcali]

I don't even tolerate my nipples being pinched, so no wonder I tend to go over from tolerable to turn-off rather quickly when it regards my cervix.

Can't remember one single time when it would have been enjoyable, it has been tolerable at best.

I tend to like it, but there is definitely a line where it is more tolerable than enjoyable and then another line where it is too much.

You like getting pounded by big really big cocks??

 

[IrisAlthea]

You like getting pounded by big really big cocks??

I see no need to elaborate beyond what I wrote.