Why lie about the little stuff?

[manofsteel52]

Re: Very Hard Question

How on earth can you be bored with your boobs?

maybe you should show us the real McCoys so we can judge for ourselves...

 

[MissTaken]

Re: Re: Very Hard Question

How on earth can you be bored with your boobs?

maybe you should show us the real McCoys so we can judge for ourselves...

You have a glimpse of them now!

 

[mbb308]

I think little lies to save feelings were once okay with me.

Perhaps I am growing up when I say that I really need and want honesty.

Tell me I look awful? I will try to do something about it.

Tell me I am a lousy cook? I will order out.

Tell me I give great oral? I will believe you and do it again.



See, the truth will motivate me more than a lie will.



However, perhaps that is just me.

Besides, when someone lies to spare my feelings, I find that insulting as if to say, "Since I don't trust you to handle the truth, I am gonna lie." This isn't high school. At least for me, honesty is what works.

No, this isn't school, at least not the social part of it, anyway.

How about:

You looked better when....instaed of awful now.

Showing you how to be a better cook.

Giving you great oral in return.

I think we can measure a person's maturity based on our perception of their ability to handle the truth. I cannot get flogged for being honest, but there is that sensitivity that smooths some of the rough edges that seems to be required.

Pointing out that a solution is needed is elementary, offering a solution is better, but helping to implement it seems best of all.

 

[ladyoflust]

G'day All

I HATE LIES

Sorry for yelling but it really gets up my nose when someone lies to me. And what sux more is when its from your own family.

Tell me the truth anyday, i can handle the truth , im a big girl.

I have been hurt and felt betrayed when someone lies to me. Therefore it has taken me so many years to actually fully trust anyone that comes near me,

Is that right ... NO ... i dont think its right because those ppl that do tell you the truth dont deserve to have the benifit of the doubt.

Thats my 2 cents worth for now, lol

 

[Playtimes fun]

Re: Re: Re: Very Hard Question

You have a glimpse of them now!

Wooohoooo MissTaken.......Lovely very Lovely....

Huggs,

Marty

 

[zipman]

Scripture

And the truth shall set you free!!

Probably because lying makes you a slave to remembering all of the different lies you've told to people.

 

[MissTaken]

the most confusing lies to keep track of are empty promises, or so I believe.

And sometimes, they are the most hurtful lies.

The promises made and consistently broken and you feel as though you aren't worthy enough to be told the truth or to have that promise kept.

The little things can really add to the walls we build around ourselves.

 

[mbb308]

the most confusing lies to keep track of are empty promises, or so I believe.

And sometimes, they are the most hurtful lies.

The promises made and consistently broken and you feel as though you aren't worthy enough to be told the truth or to have that promise kept.

The little things can really add to the walls we build around ourselves.

How many times did your parents tell you "later" before you learned later meant never?

I build the wall around me one brick at a time, and I add to the load I carry one grain of sand at a time. I try today to remove at least as much as I add, and I have had no big contributions lately.

 

[MissTaken]

Well, it doesn't pay to stop trusting, even though that is the normal and natural reaction to broken trust.

*blows kisses to mbb*

 

[mbb308]

Well, it doesn't pay to stop trusting, even though that is the normal and natural reaction to broken trust.

*blows kisses to mbb*

Thank you, Dear, and back to you....

We learn to discriminate. We watch our children and see them do the same thing.

My ex has been, over the last couple of years, giving my now 15YO son the "don't do drugs" lecture. Her perspective is the ever-popular "because I said so" - I always preferred the "this is why" point of view. He knows my story because I told him all the basics of it.

He started to counter with "Mom, did you ever do any drugs?" Her answer went from, "the answer to that doesn't concern you" to "no." Guess who's got herself a credibility problem with her only child now.

Trust is an earned commodity. However, if I like you, I want to trust you.

 

[Jimi]

A Post worth repeating.

Well, it doesn't pay to stop trusting, even though that is the normal and natural reaction to broken trust.

*blows kisses to mbb*

Yup. Dear Friend, your eloquence, is practical and sensible, as always!

I am learning,
to be more discerning.
To avoid some pain
gotta think with my brain.
Think with my cock
and I'll get a rude shock!

 

[manofsteel52]

Re: Re: Re: Very Hard Question

You have a glimpse of them now!

I certainly see nothing there to be bored with...
please excuse me if I stare... or drool...

 

[MissTaken]

Re: A Post worth repeating.

Yup. Dear Friend, your eloquence, is practical and sensible, as always!

I am learning,
to be more discerning.
To avoid some pain
gotta think with my brain.
Think with my cock
and I'll get a rude shock!

Thanks, luvvie!

Hey! Anyone who hasn't met jimmi, everyone this is jimmi. He is my cyber big brother! Jimmi, meet everyone. A great bunch of folks on this thread

 

[spankableBelle]

just a thought i wanted to share that happens to me and to many...

“I cannot.”

“I understand.”

“The distance is too much.”

Whispered words. “I understand.”

“I don’t have the time.”

Nodding. “I understand.”

“I didn’t mean to lead you on.”

Tears threatening. “I understand.”

“I didn’t mean to hurt you.”

Throat constricting. “I understand.”

“I still want to talk and be friends.”

Chest physically aching. “I understand.”

Assumptions bring high prices.

Thoughts shared. Feelings explored. Desires lusted for and left unfulfilled.

Rose colored glass falling shattered to the floor.

Bits of memories playing through the mind of what was and what will never be.

As always, I understand.

 

[manofsteel52]

Re: just a thought i wanted to share that happens to me and to many...

?I cannot.?

?I understand.?

?The distance is too much.?

Whispered words. ?I understand.?

?I don?t have the time.?

Nodding. ?I understand.?

?I didn?t mean to lead you on.?

Tears threatening. ?I understand.?

?I didn?t mean to hurt you.?

Throat constricting. ?I understand.?

?I still want to talk and be friends.?

Chest physically aching. ?I understand.?

Assumptions bring high prices.

Thoughts shared. Feelings explored. Desires lusted for and left unfulfilled.

Rose colored glass falling shattered to the floor.

Bits of memories playing through the mind of what was and what will never be.

As always, I understand.

I try to understand. And I wish I could ease your pain...

 

[MissTaken]

Beautiful post, belle.

hugs to you




The two greatest lies I have heard recently,

"Soon, dear."

"I love you."

Isn't it simply sad to think someone would like with "I love you."
What is the point?
Why bother?
It is all in teh game, I suppose.

 

[manofsteel52]

Beautiful post, belle.

hugs to you




The two greatest lies I have heard recently,

"Soon, dear."

"I love you."

Isn't it simply sad to think someone would like with "I love you."
What is the point?
Why bother?
It is all in teh game, I suppose.

It's really too bad when those words are used in a lie. I think sometimes that we often don't even know if we're lying... we often don't know the truth when we say it... or not say it ... or hear it... or don't hear it.

I apologize for rambling, it's been a very emotional night.. just felt a need to come here and post something, get away from reality for a bit. Guess I should have chosen a lighter topic...

 

[spankableBelle]

Re: Re: just a thought i wanted to share that happens to me and to many...

I try to understand. And I wish I could ease your pain...

~smile~ and 's to you, man...thank you...

 

[spankableBelle]

It's really too bad when those words are used in a lie. I think sometimes that we often don't even know if we're lying... we often don't know the truth when we say it... or not say it ... or hear it... or don't hear it.

I apologize for rambling, it's been a very emotional night.. just felt a need to come here and post something, get away from reality for a bit. Guess I should have chosen a lighter topic...

Emotional days and nights...hell on the heart and soul...takes it's toll on the mind and the body as well...

Should you need to talk, man, though i know you have many friends...i am here...~smile~

belle

 

[manofsteel52]

Emotional days and nights...hell on the heart and soul...takes it's toll on the mind and the body as well...

Should you need to talk, man, though i know you have many friends...i am here...~smile~

belle

You have a PM, but you might be sorry you offered....

 

[MissTaken]

Manofsteel

You always manage to make me think.

Today's thought:

Emotions can be such a beautiful and welcome thing. Then, there are times when they bite us in the bottom .

The words, "I love you."

And sometimes, I think they are said in a benevolent fashion to try to meet some unmet need on the part of the other party. While intentions may be good, the pain when the realization hits, is not.

hugs to you

 

[spankableBelle]

You have a PM, but you might be sorry you offered....

i am never sorry when i offer friendship, i am only sorry when i offer my heart and submission when i think it's welcomed and wanted and it's handed back...(shrugs)...and now you have a reply to said pm...~smile~

 

[Jimi]

Re: Manofsteel

You always manage to make me think.

Today's thought:

Emotions can be such a beautiful and welcome thing. Then, there are times when they bite us in the bottom .

The words, "I love you."

And sometimes, I think they are said in a benevolent fashion to try to meet some unmet need on the part of the other party. While intentions may be good, the pain when the realization hits, is not.

hugs to you

Re: Good intentions... No Shit, Eh? I am so FUCKING angry and depressed today I could just scream! I do all the right things... be good to people, pay my taxes... Yadda, yadda, Phooey!

I need to start being a liar - they are the ones with the power and cash in their pockets. Maybe the manipulative bastards & bitches of whom we speak herein have the right idea... fuck your Neighbour and devil take the hindmost.... AAARRRRRGH!

 

[MissTaken]

Jimmi?

Liars don't have me in their back pocket, darlin'




Yahoo, NOW!

 

[manofsteel52]

Re: Manofsteel

You always manage to make me think.

Today's thought:

Emotions can be such a beautiful and welcome thing. Then, there are times when they bite us in the bottom .

The words, "I love you."

And sometimes, I think they are said in a benevolent fashion to try to meet some unmet need on the part of the other party. While intentions may be good, the pain when the realization hits, is not.

hugs to you

Sometimes I wish I could make myself stop thinking.
I've been bit in the bottom so many times & so hard it's a wonder I have any ass left at all.

The one redeeming value of pain is that if we didn't have it, we'd never know when we were really feeling good...

Hugs accepted and greatly appreciated... mmm... got any licks?