cherrylips_au
Perhaps perhaps perhaps
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After reading throught the thread lots of points have been made, some relevant some not.
I would like to add on the rapist part that they don't only go after young pretty women, what about older women even grandmothers that are raped or children and young teenagers or men?
No one can say how a rapists mind works as different things make them do it but basically it still comes down to the power and control over their victim.
Reclaiming the words slut, whore, and bitch doesn't appeal to me as I would never feel comfortable be called that by a complete stranger, you don't know exactly what context they are meaning it. Also I wouldn't feel comfortable about anyone calling my daughters those names.
Back to the orginal question, do authors who use those words hate women? Only the author can answer that but do we always have to like characters we write about?
If we are writing about a rapist or a murderer or racist it doesn't mean we like them or anything that character does. It just means that person (not the author) has evolved into that character for their part of the story.
I would like to add on the rapist part that they don't only go after young pretty women, what about older women even grandmothers that are raped or children and young teenagers or men?
No one can say how a rapists mind works as different things make them do it but basically it still comes down to the power and control over their victim.
Reclaiming the words slut, whore, and bitch doesn't appeal to me as I would never feel comfortable be called that by a complete stranger, you don't know exactly what context they are meaning it. Also I wouldn't feel comfortable about anyone calling my daughters those names.
Back to the orginal question, do authors who use those words hate women? Only the author can answer that but do we always have to like characters we write about?
If we are writing about a rapist or a murderer or racist it doesn't mean we like them or anything that character does. It just means that person (not the author) has evolved into that character for their part of the story.