Skinny girls? OR Girls with some meat?

[College_geek]

ive seen it over and over where a guy that likes larger women gets labeled negatively

I like to think that that's why I don't have more guys telling my I'm pretty in real life. Online it's fine, but around their friends, it's "embarrassing".

Course it could be that I'm just ugly. *shrug*

 

[Nightjak]

I have traveled far and wide and been with a pletora of females, all of them beautiful in my eyes.... Of course I do have my preferences. My point is this: What is considered beautiful depends on your location and the idea of the area. Americans (mostly) Like skinner women than those in Samoa. Japan will differ from those in Hungary.
I have been with 50+ yr old HWP woman, and found that the 24 yr old model thin young lady no comparison. I'm a 6'9" black man and I prefer beauty from the inside..I found a lot of gorrgeous women are ugly inside and I can deal with that.

Short and sweet answer (personal preference)

 

[rydia57]

I agree. As long as the woman is in proportion she is hot.

I concur. Preportion is a work of art.

 

[arrowana]

Like DK said, its personal preference. I myself prefer an athletic build. Can't stand those skin and bones girls where you can see the ribs.

 

[human_male]

Just be happy with yourself, and confident in your attractiveness and sex appeal. Very few (in fact I can't imagine any) men are only turned on by one body type. If they are there's something wrong with them since women can be saucy as all hell right across the spectrum when it comes to body types.

Personally I like slim, and quite large. I don't go for unhealthily skinny or obese. Anything in between is cool with me.

 

[BadBuckNaked]

Yeah...

I just like what I like...I can't worry whether or not anyone thinks they're too skinny or too heavy It sounds cliche...but true beauty does come from within

 

[Damariscotta]

I think a woman with some curves is much more attractive than a zero size woman. If I had to choose between a lady who is 25 pounds overweight vs a lady who has the body of someone like Kate Moss, I'll take the former over the latter every time. It's all personal preference, I suppose.

 

[SensualMan_in_PA]

I am a aficionado of women. Weight and age are merely numbers. If a woman is intelligent, has a likable personality, is proportionate and exudes sensuality, what more could a man desire? Fake boobs are not a substitute for any of the above! All that having been said, I do prefer tits & hips over ribs!

 

[College_geek]

Just be happy with yourself, and confident in your attractiveness and sex appeal. Very few (in fact I can't imagine any) men are only turned on by one body type. If they are there's something wrong with them since women can be saucy as all hell right across the spectrum when it comes to body types.

Personally I like slim, and quite large. I don't go for unhealthily skinny or obese. Anything in between is cool with me.

This is a very broad generalization, but I think a lot of younger guys have the "turned on by one body type" thing. My sexual interests span what guys that age often site as hot, but I'm overweight. It sometimes seems to me that guys this age, if given the choice between a slim vanilla girl and an overweight freak, would choose the slim one because of the body type. Then again, like I said, this is a huge generalization.

 

[txnstud21]

This is a very broad generalization, but I think a lot of younger guys have the "turned on by one body type" thing. My sexual interests span what guys that age often site as hot, but I'm overweight. It sometimes seems to me that guys this age, if given the choice between a slim vanilla girl and an overweight freak, would choose the slim one because of the body type. Then again, like I said, this is a huge generalization.

one generalization i definately dont fit into. i definately can find beauty in all body types depending on the person. honestly the more i get to know a person the better (or worse) their looks become to me. I like any age (over 18) and body type as long as the woman is fun and interesting

 

[Shyguy1369]

For me it comes down to just attraction. I have been attracted to both skinny girls and 'girls with some meat' as you say. I really can't say there is a preference. If she is attractive to me than it doesn't matter really. I will say this for me personally, my biggest turn ons and the women I am attracted to the most are Asians and Redheads... so as you can see it has really nothing to do with size... its the attraction.

 

[Mr_Mrs_Angel]

Weight, size, & shape mean nothing to me at all, I just need a girl with personality and a great smile and I am happy

Although I am Boob man for sure! a girl with a big chest doesn't need to smile as much

 

[brandis_man]

I like to think that that's why I don't have more guys telling my I'm pretty in real life. Online it's fine, but around their friends, it's "embarrassing".

Course it could be that I'm just ugly. *shrug*

I think, judging from your profile pics, that you are beautiful on the outside and from the few posts I have read of yours - I am sure you are just as beautiful inside! As far as the whole 'guys with their friends' thing, I have been down that road before and I will tell you in the end none of those guys will matter. You will find the one that loves you for you and you won't even remember the rest of them. Just be happy and confident with yourself and what you have to offer and everything else will fall into place.
Do beware though, of falling into that same role - choosing a guy based on the same pretense. When I sat back and looked at the guys I was attracted to and wasting my time one - found they were the hot, built, cocky assholes - I was just setting myself up. - Anyway, its early and I am tired - sorry if none of that made any sense

 

[SensualMan_in_PA]

I think, judging from your profile pics, that you are beautiful on the outside and from the few posts I have read of yours - I am sure you are just as beautiful inside! As far as the whole 'guys with their friends' thing, I have been down that road before and I will tell you in the end none of those guys will matter. You will find the one that loves you for you and you won't even remember the rest of them. Just be happy and confident with yourself and what you have to offer and everything else will fall into place.
Do beware though, of falling into that same role - choosing a guy based on the same pretense. When I sat back and looked at the guys I was attracted to and wasting my time one - found they were the hot, built, cocky assholes - I was just setting myself up. - Anyway, its early and I am tired - sorry if none of that made any sense

What you said makes sense. I remember from my high school and college life eons ago that there were always babes of every physical description attracted to the "bad boys" who would use them and treat them like crap. There was never a shortage of future victims! Guys who didn't have a "reputation", or weren't jocks, hunks or popular and wanted to treat a babe as a person were "nice" and "just friends". Human nature doesn't change.

 

[College_geek]

one generalization i definately dont fit into. i definately can find beauty in all body types depending on the person. honestly the more i get to know a person the better (or worse) their looks become to me. I like any age (over 18) and body type as long as the woman is fun and interesting

It's always nice to hear this. Typing out my previous response, I was mainly thinking of one friend of mine in particular who had admitted to it the night before, about how he likes small slim girls cause he's a medium height skinny guy. Then he made a generalization of his own (he and I need to stop with the generalizing!) in which larger guys liked larger women and smaller guys liked smaller women. I could've started debating with him, but that would've gotten ugly, so I just said "not really".

Really, it is all about preference and everyone's different...unfortunately I just seem to be going to school in an area where most people are the same...or they won't admit being different. Le sigh!

 

[txnstud21]

It's always nice to hear this. Typing out my previous response, I was mainly thinking of one friend of mine in particular who had admitted to it the night before, about how he likes small slim girls cause he's a medium height skinny guy. Then he made a generalization of his own (he and I need to stop with the generalizing!) in which larger guys liked larger women and smaller guys liked smaller women. I could've started debating with him, but that would've gotten ugly, so I just said "not really".

Really, it is all about preference and everyone's different...unfortunately I just seem to be going to school in an area where most people are the same...or they won't admit being different. Le sigh!

maybe you should come to school down south

 

[Medue69]

I like to think that that's why I don't have more guys telling my I'm pretty in real life. Online it's fine, but around their friends, it's "embarrassing".

Course it could be that I'm just ugly. *shrug*

I feel the same way...guys love me online, but no one would be caught dead eyeing a BBW at a bar or on the street. No one admits they like "Big" girls to their friends..its all about image in america.

 

[College_geek]

maybe you should come to school down south

Very very tempting, especially with you there. There are many aspects of MA that I would miss though...maybe I could convince the southern boys to come to school up here. Or just have a student exchange program.

 

[txnstud21]

Very very tempting, especially with you there. There are many aspects of MA that I would miss though...maybe I could convince the southern boys to come to school up here. Or just have a student exchange program.

i wouldnt mind visiting for a bit. i am intrigued to see if you are as interesting in rl as you are on the boards

 

[College_geek]

i wouldnt mind visiting for a bit. i am intrigued to see if you are as interesting in rl as you are on the boards

Haha...I don't know...sometimes I come off as very obnoxious to my friends when I can't shut up about sex. I spilt the "used a strap-on on my bf" beans when I was tipsy this past weekend...that shook them up a bit. ^^()()()

 

[txnstud21]

Haha...I don't know...sometimes I come off as very obnoxious to my friends when I can't shut up about sex. I spilt the "used a strap-on on my bf" beans when I was tipsy this past weekend...that shook them up a bit. ^^()()()

lol i doubt i would get tired of hearing about it or new ideas of ways to do it.

 

[College_geek]

lol i doubt i would get tired of hearing about it or new ideas of ways to do it.

I get so used to talking about it here and elsewhere online that when I'm talking to them...well, I just start talking about it. When sex is on the brain 90% of the time...it's difficult!

 

[txnstud21]

I get so used to talking about it here and elsewhere online that when I'm talking to them...well, I just start talking about it. When sex is on the brain 90% of the time...it's difficult!

you do get sexier by the post

 

[College_geek]

you do get sexier by the post

Mwahaha...my plan is complete!

 

[txnstud21]

Mwahaha...my plan is complete!

whats your plan to have me thinking of you as i pleasure myself?