Are You Gay, Bi, Strait, or...

[SexxyDevil69]

I am bisexual...I see nothing wrong with that and I also just enjoy sex...I don't care who I am getting it from as long as it is safe sex and itsnt hurting anyone...I guess you could say I go by the "if it feels good and isn't hurting anyone then do it" motto

 

[waitingforyou]

I am bisexual...I see nothing wrong with that and I also just enjoy sex...I don't care who I am getting it from as long as it is safe sex and itsnt hurting anyone...I guess you could say I go by the "if it feels good and isn't hurting anyone then do it" motto

Best philosophy around I’d say!

 

[SexxyDevil69]

Best philosophy around I’d say!

Why thank you

 

[jmmitch80]

.....

 

[bysable]

Female married to male. And bisexual here.

 

[Brinnie]

Hey Brinnie! I myself am bisexual, and have always been attracted to both sexes.

That's cool.

I used to think i'm bi- but now i just think im sexual.

 

[Baskin Robbins]

Hey Brinnie

I would "categorize" myself as a totally straight heterosexual male.

My wife would swing me toward bi-sexual. I want some things that she qualifies as gay, and they are becoming "deal breakers". She won't touch my ass. That is HUGE for me. I will do ANYTHING she might ask for -- even though she won't open up to me even after 9 years (I've known her for 21 years.)

If she can't do it now, I'm looking for a bi relationship in the Southeast!

I NEVER thought I would cross over, but I'm open to an attractive man in my area!!

I just want someone to take care of my needs -- sexual AND emotional!!!

 

[M_ber166]

Was it mine?

was it YOUR cock?

No, but I've been able to do that in the way too distant past

 

[KharisLeaf82]

Hey Brinnie! I myself am bisexual, and have always been attracted to both sexes.

Aw, Damn - - you're hot, sweetie. Then again, it's not much that makes my panties wet.

*Kharis*

 

[imaginationwild]

bi....

I normally have relationships with women.....but every now and then I just love to wrap my lips around a cock.

 

[AngelofDeath]

Bi very very Bi. I can go from side to the next. I was attracted to girls from an early age, but going to catholic school from k-6 repressed that. The feeling didn't come back till fresh yr ih HS in an encouter with my lover's brother's gf.

I love cock and pussy equally.

 

[Brinnie]

No, but I've been able to do that in the way too distant past

I was just fucking with you...
A common courtesy I give to pretty much everyone.

 

[SophiaY]

For what it’s worth; I’ve rarely run into lesbians and gays who were genuinely curious, especially once past self-acknowledging one’s identity.
For many of us, there is a period when we tried having a physical relationship with someone of the opposite sex – because of societal expectations – but, later, there simply isn’t a spark of interest.
Perhaps more of us are distributed on the far end of the Kinsey scale.

 

[Sanitysux]

I've always known that I'm bi, but I've only recently gotten truly comfortable with it.
I'm still a little confused at how the rest of the world seems to react to bi men.
It's just my personal experiences of course, but it seems like if a women is bi, that's sexy & erotic.
But a bi sexual man is looked down upon by both sexes.
The gay men don't think you're "gay enough" and the straight women
just think you're weird. Any other bi men here had similar experiences?

 

[artisticbeauty]

There was no horny option. Yea, I'm not sure what I am other than I know that I am extremely sexual!

 

[SophiaY]

There was no horny option. Yea, I'm not sure what I am other than I know that I am extremely sexual!

It isn't the sex, but the emotions that define us as being straight, bi, or gay. It's how our heart feels, not how our mound throbs that makes the difference.

 

[Bigbibear]

I would have to go with omnisexual!!!

 

[Sanitysux]

I need to change my orientation from bi-sexual to pansexual.
I didn't know that there were so many different definitions of a persons sexuality??

 

[tusitala]

where is the line you cross between str8 and bi, or between bi and gay? some guys call themselves bi, but they like kissing, cuddeling, {?}. i personally, am not attracted to other guys. i don't want to kiss them. i do not care about any of the affection. all i want is what their genitals can do for me. when i want affection to go along with the sex, i'll take a woman every time. so you make up your own mind which catagory i fit into. first, second, third, or none of the above.

I find myself agreeing with everything you say....

 

[Nordic man]

Yes I agree with you about the not 100% one way or the other.

And as much as I may like being sexual with another man, making that step of having a relationship with them outside of the sex it not in my realm of comfort at this moment, but open to it.

Well like I said in my 1st post - I don't believe that anyone is 100% straight/gay anyway; we all have thoughts about the same sex at some point. And if the reason you have joined this site is to find out what your orientation is chances are that you've had thoughts about both sexes... so I'd say bi. It's easier that way anyway. Best of both.

Sorry if I offended...

I think people get too wrapped up in Labels... I know guys who like to suck cock but would never dream of having a relationship with a man. I'd still class them as bi though...

 

[Emon]

im new to this site.....my friend told me about it....i told my best friend that i was bi...and he said that this site would help alot to help me with anything i needed.....he said that he was ok with it.....but the real thing is telling my parents....and i dont know how to tell my parents....

 

[Brinnie]

im new to this site.....my friend told me about it....i told my best friend that i was bi...and he said that this site would help alot to help me with anything i needed.....he said that he was ok with it.....but the real thing is telling my parents....and i dont know how to tell my parents....

send them an email?

 

[Emon]

knowing my parents they would get mad if i sent them an email....

 

[Etoile]

knowing my parents they would get mad if i sent them an email....

How about writing (or typing) it on paper? I actually used that quite a lot when I was a preteen and teenager. My mom even encouraged me to write her a letter whenever I had something that was bothering me.

 

[Emon]

that might work...but you see i left them all the way bakc home in canada so i really wont be able to tell them to there face until i go to visite or move back in....