Lil_Jenni's Adventures, Past and Present...

[SexyVita]

And my eyes missed the typo until you just pointed it out, because I kept reading it as the word I meant it to be.

Yeah, that's why it really helps to have an outside editor. I usually get by without one, but that's for two reasons, one is I'm paranoid about spelling because I'm bad at it, so I often look up words to be sure I've spelled them right as I'm writing. The other reason is that I have a weird little switch in my brain that lets me turn on editor mode. This often lets me see stuff, like misconguation of verbs, or typos like "she's" instead of "she'd", that I missed while writing.

 

[lil_jenni]

Had a fun day yesterday. Hubby, the Kiddo, my friend Misty, and I went to a baseball game. Misty is my ex Gf's stripper ex, the one Hubby and I had a threesome with a few weeks ago. We had a lot of fun hanging out and watching baseball. I don't think she and I will drop the benefits part of our FWB's situation, and I suspect more threesomes may be in our future too, but the friend part looks like it may turn out much stronger than I expected. And Hubby likes her too.

He was worried at first because people he knows (like attorneys from his old firm) have season tickets and might have seen us at the game (it is triple A, so the ballpark isn't that big). I pointed out that if anyone he knew saw her with us and knew she's a stripper, it would be because they'd seen her dance, which they might or might not admit. Plus, I said he could always say she's my friend and he didn't know what she does for a living. He knew all that, but I needed to remind him because he was nervous at first. Then he settled down.

Oh, Misty and I ended up dressing almost exactly the same—shorts and an oversized baseball jersey. But Misty's jersey was less oversized on her than mine is on me, and she fills hers out quite a bit more too. I was not alone in finding her quite lovely, as I saw several guys (and a couple women) checking her out and looking at the four of us together as if they were trying to figure out what the connection was and whether she might be available.

 

[lil_jenni]

I'm pondering going back to blonde hair (my natural hair color), or perhaps to just a more blonde strawberry blonde (my current hair color is a more red strawberry blonde, like.my avatar). I've also thought.about lavender, but I'd need to change it to a more natural type color before school starts again.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

I'm pondering going back to blonde hair (my natural hair color), or perhaps to just a more blonde strawberry blonde (my current hair color is a more red strawberry blonde, like.my avatar). I've also thought.about lavender, but I'd need to change it to a more natural type color before school starts again.

Why change? My youngest goes to a Montesorri school and several of his teachers have the whole spectrum of colored hair!

 

[LizVegas79]

I'm pondering going back to blonde hair (my natural hair color), or perhaps to just a more blonde strawberry blonde (my current hair color is a more red strawberry blonde, like.my avatar). I've also thought.about lavender, but I'd need to change it to a more natural type color before school starts again.

I would vote for lavender b/c that's the color I'd choose if I could get away with it at work.

 

[lil_jenni]

Why change? My youngest goes to a school and several of his teachers have the whole spectrum of colored hair!

My school requires teachers and school staff to have "naturally occurring" hair colors as to avoid distractions for the students. It's actually a district rule.

 

[ShaneoD]

My school requires teachers and school staff to have "naturally occurring" hair colors as to avoid distractions for the students. It's actually a district rule.

The hair colour thing might be a bit mean, but I do remember being a teenager and being easily distracted, I can still remember seeing a hot young redheaded maths teachers tongue piercing for the first time

 

[Backagainpart4]

My school requires teachers and school staff to have "naturally occurring" hair colors as to avoid distractions for the students. It's actually a district rule.

Our teachers hair color is all over the place. Our district has relaxed some of their teacher dress code guidelines in the last couple years. My hair is now half light blond half white. I guess that’s naturally occurring since I don’t color it

 

[lil_jenni]

Our teachers hair color is all over the place. Our district has relaxed some of their teacher dress code guidelines in the last couple years. My hair is now half light blond half white. I guess that’s naturally occurring since I don’t color it

A couple years back, one of my colleagues had silver frosted tips. Her hair is almost black. The district said the contrast violated the policy. Our administration argued that the policy prohibited unnatural coloration, not patterns. Eventually the district gave in. A rare win!

We also tried to get shorts and sleeveless tops approved a couple years ago. Students can wear both, and PhysEd teachers can wear shorts. The district "compromised" and allowed capris and shortened the dress/skirt length requirement from mid-calf to knee length. And no, I don't live in the Bible belt...

 

[Backagainpart4]

Wow! I live in Utah and ours isn’t that strict

 

[VikingPhoenix]

To get anyone who wants to know up to speed, my Hubby and I just expanded the parameters of our marriage to include me engaging in my polyamory with other men. A few years back, we had agreed I would limit it to women. But he's realized over time, through our conversations and his research into polyamory (which he undertook on his own), that the existing limitation is at best artificial and at most sexist and retrogressive (his words). So, new adventures await...

I should note that Hubby is not at all polyamorous. We've had three FFM threesomes because I wanted them, but he would default to not doing it if I didn't want to. He did really like the one we had over the weekend; he and our third, Misty, hit it off well. And I liked watching them. I have a bit of a thing about watching Hubby tuck another woman...

Hubby, on the other hand, is not interested in watching me or even hearing about what I do. It was that way when I first had a girlfriend too. So, this is not a Hot Wife deal. This is him understanding that my fulfillment is at odds with traditional monogamy. And yes, I am very lucky to have him!

Sounds fun! Lucky you. Interested in chatting with a Viking? Pm anytime. Am in a similar relationship with my wifey but shes not yet Interested in the real thing. Just breaking her in with some roll play...inviting my friends to visit us and letting them flirt or fuck her if she desires. She just loves the chat while spread in our sex swing. Im well endowed but secretly purchased a very large cock sleeve and pretending it was my mate Big Vick from South Africa. I even dubbed in some whispering voices as we approached...when i pressed that massive cock up to her pussy, she blurted out an involuntary sigh...something shes never done before. Needless to say, the Vick came back the very next day. Have fun. Live once. Cheers for your hotness

 

[lil_jenni]

Wow! I live in Utah and ours isn’t that strict

It's crazy. We have Appearance Standards rather than a dress code. The goal is business casual appearance. It covers clothing, hair color, tattoos, etc. They have relaxed the tattoo policy in order to get younger teachers, but for some reason shorts are where they draw the line...

I wear jeans or khakis, walking shoes, and a polo, most days. T-shirts are okay if it is a school shirt. I used to get some complaints about tight pants when I was younger (before the kiddo). Now I tend to go with relaxed fit for my work pants, both for comfort and to forestall complaints.

It's one area where being smaller breasted is an advantage. Accidental cleavage is not a problem, and I don't have to wear huge shirts so no one will complain about them being too tight across my chest. I have colleagues who've received such complaints.for tight shirts, although that seems to be more an issue for secondary rather than primary, so we don't get it a lot.

 

[Backagainpart4]

It's crazy. We have Appearance Standards rather than a dress code. The goal is business casual appearance. It covers clothing, hair color, tattoos, etc. They have relaxed the tattoo policy in order to get younger teachers, but for some reason shorts are where they draw the line...

I wear jeans or khakis, walking shoes, and a polo, most days. T-shirts are okay if it is a school shirt. I used to get some complaints about tight pants when I was younger (before the kiddo). Now I tend to go with relaxed fit for my work pants, both for comfort and to forestall complaints.

It's one area where being smaller breasted is an advantage. Accidental cleavage is not a problem, and I don't have to wear huge shirts so no one will complain about them being too tight across my chest. I have colleagues who've received such complaints.for tight shirts, although that seems to be more an issue for secondary rather than primary, so we don't get it a lot.

Ours was business casual. It was relaxed during Covid and stayed that way since. Jeans are ok as long as no holes in them. Shorts mid thigh are allowed. No open toed shoes, but sneakers are ok. Plain t shirts allowed. No logos unless it’s a school shirt. The only tattoo policy is if it’s not “school appropriate” it has to be covered. Part of dress code is the school ID must be on a lanyard around the neck and above the belt line. Our keys must also be on the lanyard behind our ID. They enforce the ID and keys even though other things might slide by.

Most of the teachers still dress business casual. But some (especially newer teachers) are very casual. I’m usually in a solid color polo shirt (long or short sleeve depending on season). Khakis or dress slacks and comfortable dress shoes. Its a personal preference that I like being dressed in business casual rather than jeans. Although when it’s snowing it jeans for sure.

 

[SexyVita]

It's crazy. We have Appearance Standards rather than a dress code. The goal is business casual appearance. It covers clothing, hair color, tattoos, etc. They have relaxed the tattoo policy in order to get younger teachers, but for some reason shorts are where they draw the line...

I wear jeans or khakis, walking shoes, and a polo, most days. T-shirts are okay if it is a school shirt. I used to get some complaints about tight pants when I was younger (before the kiddo). Now I tend to go with relaxed fit for my work pants, both for comfort and to forestall complaints.

It's one area where being smaller breasted is an advantage. Accidental cleavage is not a problem, and I don't have to wear huge shirts so no one will complain about them being too tight across my chest. I have colleagues who've received such complaints.for tight shirts, although that seems to be more an issue for secondary rather than primary, so we don't get it a lot.

Fuck! What's it going to take for people to realize that hiding women's bodies only makes them that much more interesting and enticing. There was a time when men got excited over a glimpse of a woman's ankle. Her ankle! And the people that want women to cover up are, in my experience, the same ones that object to sex ed in school and who would say a raped woman was "asking for it". All because they don't want to own up to the fact that the real problem is not teaching boys (and men) to be respectful of women and not treat them like they're naughty sex toys that should be kept in the closet and not seen or talked about!

OK... OK... deep breath... Rant over, for now.

 

[SexyVita]

Part of dress code is the school ID must be on a lanyard around the neck and above the belt line. Our keys must also be on the lanyard behind our ID. They enforce the ID and keys even though other things might slide by.

Well, I can understand the ID policy at least. In this unfortunate age of mass shootings, being able to see at a glance if there is an adult who doesn't belong there is just good security policy. The thinking on the keys might be that with them hanging above the waist, on a lanyard, it makes it pretty difficult for someone to steal them without it being extremely obvious.

 

[lil_jenni]

Ours was business casual. It was relaxed during Covid and stayed that way since. Jeans are ok as long as no holes in them. Shorts mid thigh are allowed. No open toed shoes, but sneakers are ok. Plain t shirts allowed. No logos unless it’s a school shirt. The only tattoo policy is if it’s not “school appropriate” it has to be covered. Part of dress code is the school ID must be on a lanyard around the neck and above the belt line. Our keys must also be on the lanyard behind our ID. They enforce the ID and keys even though other things might slide by.

We have to have our IDs either on a lanyard or clipped to a belt and visible. I don't wear belts (usually), so the lanyard it is.

We are supposed to keep our keys on us at all times, but we can keep them in our pockets.
However, I clip mine to my lanyard or a belt loop if my pants have one. Much easier to access and harder to forget.

Our current tattoo policy is the same as yours. It used to be no visible tattoos, but they relaxed it to no inappropriate visible tattoos.

 

[Backagainpart4]

Well, I can understand the ID policy at least. In this unfortunate age of mass shootings, being able to see at a glance if there is an adult who doesn't belong there is just good security policy. The thinking on the keys might be that with them hanging above the waist, on a lanyard, it makes it pretty difficult for someone to steal them without it being extremely obvious.

That is exactly why we wear ID above the waist and you are right about keys as well. Our SRO was having trouble identifying teachers during a drill a couple years ago. He suggested the ID policy and it was implemented.

Surprisingly some of the teachers got really upset at having to wear their ID. I think it’s a good idea.

 

[Backagainpart4]

We have to have our IDs either on a lanyard or clipped to a belt and visible. I don't wear belts (usually), so the lanyard it is.

We are supposed to keep our keys on us at all times, but we can keep them in our pockets.
However, I clip mine to my lanyard or a belt loop if my pants have one. Much easier to access and harder to forget.

Our current tattoo policy is the same as yours. It used to be no visible tattoos, but they relaxed it to no inappropriate visible tattoos.

Prior to these policies I lost my keys or locked myself out regularly. Now I haven’t lost them once or accidentally locked myself out. Cause I always have them.

 

[SexyVita]

That is exactly why we wear ID above the waist and you are right about keys as well. Our SRO was having trouble identifying teachers during a drill a couple years ago. He suggested the ID policy and it was implemented.

Surprisingly some of the teachers got really upset at having to wear their ID. I think it’s a good idea.

Until recently, I worked in a place dealing with IT end of life cycle processing which requires data security, so not only do you have to wear a badge, but they have to be marked with who can and can't access areas that contain secure data and our policy (to wear your badge on a lanyard above the waist) was the same.

 

[RunningJib]

I'm sitting here watching Hubby and the Kiddo playing, and I want this to be enough for me. And it is, in terms of family. But...

I do not think I'm wired for pure monogamy. Before the Kiddo came along, I had a series of girl crushes I didn't act on. I came here as an outlet. I read erotica. I kept it together because I love my Husband.

After the Kiddo, for a year my sex drive was about a third of normal, and that year I did not come on Lit, read much erotica, or think about other people. But when my sex drive came back, it did with a vengeance. Hubby and I came to an arrangement regarding me being with a woman or women. But because of my own inability to hook up, and then Covid, it didn't happen for some time. But the thought it could was enough, until my GF. That helped and made it worse both. It showed me how much I had been repressing. And when that ended, it left me very frustrated despite having a great sex life with my Hubby.

Now, with the new arrangement with Hubby, I'm ready to be what my polyamorous soul wants me to be. But I'm worried I may have lost mojo with guys. Pre-Hubby it was so easy. Pick a cute guy to hook up with, tell him what I would do (blow him, usually), he would agree happily, and we would go somewhere I could do what I did best. The vast majority of guys jumped at the chance. I few said they had girlfriends or were just not interested, but a very small percentage. I didn't get all worked up about it or disappointed in the rare instances it didn't. But I fell apart today. And as Kelly pointed out, the guy really wasn't worth all that. He was good enough and available, I thought. Maybe today was for the best.

So, I'm going to take a different route. Misty suggested I look outside people I know (especially outside people with whom I work or used to work). I agree. And she said she would help. So, I'm excited to see where this leads, but no more rushing into something I built up to be more important than it was.

I think you should just keep your eyes open and be flexible.


I meet a women at Starbucks a few weeks ago. I bought her some chocolate covered espresso beans and I got her number.

Doesn't happen often, but it does once in a great while.

 

[lil_jenni]

Hubby and I went out looking at new cars yesterday. He still is suggesting I get something bigger since we are trying for a second child. I currently have a few years old yellow WRX (but it doesn't have the big wing... ). I love my WRX. I think it will fit two kids fine. Hubby is pushing an Outback or something like an Explorer. I am not really and SUV kind of woman.

I wouldn't mind a Wrangler, however. We test drove one of the hybrid Wranglers. It's not as quick as my WRX, but it's close. Hubby said there's not enough cargo room, however.

Right now, we have four cars for two drivers. He has his Ranger 4x4 truck and an early 90s Bronco (I always forget the exact year... '93, maybe). I have my WRX and a 76 Eldorado convertible his uncle left to me. The two older vehicles don't get driven much (the Bronco is still being restored). So, he thinks I should have a more practical car.

I told him he can sell his truck and get an SUV for big family outings, and I can keep my WRX. He said his truck has utility that my WRX does not have, so it makes sense for me to get the SUV. I told him I could take the truck and he could drive the SUV, and he laughed because the truck would not be fast enough for me. He's right about that.

So... I'm leaning toward the Outback Limited if I can't have the hybrid Wrangler. It's almost as quick as my WRX, but it's not as responsive and does not handle as well. And if I'm going to lose the handling of the WRX, I'd rather be a Jeep girl...

 

[Bdm20]

If you want fast, you want electric. What’s zero-sixty in your WRX?

 

[lil_jenni]

If you want fast, you want electric. What’s zero-sixty in your WRX?

My model WRX was tested at 5.5 seconds 0-60. I live at 4500+ feet in altitude, so that reduces performance. And for those who may presume since I'm a girl that I drive an automatic (automatic WRXs are not as quick as manuals), they would be wrong. I drive a manual. Except for my Caddy, every car I've owned has been a manual. Well, Hubby's truck and Bronco are automatics... But he doesn't like manual transmissions like I do.

Electric vehicles can be much quicker, but not all are. It depends on the number of motors and the number of wheels driven. My WRX is as quick 0-60 as a two wheel drive Model 3 Tesla and quicker than a rear wheel drive Mach E. My WRX is slightly slower than the base Model Y Tesla, and I would think about that one except... it can't run with my WRX in the mountains. And they don't shift. It's unnatural.

Besides, if all I wanted was something for stoplight to stoplight that could beat my WRX, I have several SUV options in my price range, and those would make Hubby happy. But my WRX will run away from those on twisty mountain roads, and that's the driving I love. If I'm going to give it up, it'd be for something I can take off road, like a Jeep. But the Wrangler 4Xe is a bit more than we wanted to spend..

I've also thought about the new Broncos (the full size, not the Sport), but they're pretty high to be getting young kids in and out of, at least when your my size (I'm 5 foot nothing... ).

And my WRX is paid for with only 50k miles. Nope... I'm keeping it.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

Hubby and I went out looking at new cars yesterday. He still is suggesting I get something bigger since we are trying for a second child. I currently have a few years old yellow WRX (but it doesn't have the big wing... ). I love my WRX. I think it will fit two kids fine. Hubby is pushing an Outback or something like an Explorer. I am not really and SUV kind of woman.

I wouldn't mind a Wrangler, however. We test drove one of the hybrid Wranglers. It's not as quick as my WRX, but it's close. Hubby said there's not enough cargo room, however.

Right now, we have four cars for two drivers. He has his Ranger 4x4 truck and an early 90s Bronco (I always forget the exact year... '93, maybe). I have my WRX and a 76 Eldorado convertible his uncle left to me. The two older vehicles don't get driven much (the Bronco is still being restored). So, he thinks I should have a more practical car.

I told him he can sell his truck and get an SUV for big family outings, and I can keep my WRX. He said his truck has utility that my WRX does not have, so it makes sense for me to get the SUV. I told him I could take the truck and he could drive the SUV, and he laughed because the truck would not be fast enough for me. He's right about that.

So... I'm leaning toward the Outback Limited if I can't have the hybrid Wrangler. It's almost as quick as my WRX, but it's not as responsive and does not handle as well. And if I'm going to lose the handling of the WRX, I'd rather be a Jeep girl...

Don’t get rid of the truck. Trucks are sooooo useful. May not need it everyday, but when you do need it, you need it. Outback’s are nice. Everyone I know that owns(ed) one loved them, especially if it snows in your part of the world.

ps…the price tag on the new Bronc’s are outrageous! . I do like the room in them compared to Jeeps though

 

[lil_jenni]

Don’t get rid of the truck. Trucks are sooooo useful. May not need it everyday, but when you do need it, you need it. Outback’s are nice. Everyone I know that owns(ed) one loved them, especially if it snows in your part of the world.

ps…the price tag on the new Bronc’s are outrageous! . I do like the room in them compared to Jeeps though

Outbacks are okay. The three cars that I have bought in my life have all been Subarus — a 2000 Impreza RS (bought used by my Dad and me before I went off to college), a 2012 Impreza wagon (when the RS died ), and my WRX (my Caddy was a bequest to me, so I did not buy it). If I do end up with an SUV, an Outback is probably what it's going to be.

And yeah, the Broncos are outrageous. I would probably have to sell my Caddy as well as trade in the WRX in order to afford it. And I don't want to sell the Caddy. My Hubby's uncle wanted me to have it. But I do feel like a little girl when I drive it, given how big it is and how small I am...

Speaking of the Caddy, I put the top down tonight and we drove it out to a good place to watch fireworks. It is a great car for that!