cheekygirl75
Brains of the Outfit
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Thinking people are well meaning, I know, but we only have a limited amount of space in the fridge and freezer and our stomachs.
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If you have a local buy nothing group on FB and are looking for some time to fill, you could probably post and then hand out a few meals for those who can pick up so it’s easy/gas free for you.Thinking people are well meaning, I know, but we only have a limited amount of space in the fridge and freezer and our stomachs.
Thinking people are well meaning, I know, but we only have a limited amount of space in the fridge and freezer and our stomachs.
Meh sometimes you need to be a troll or smartass. It’s 80/20. Be a good person 80% of the time and let it fly the other 20%. It’s not good to hold it all in!Sometimes I just can't resist being a troll or a smartass. Someday I will certainly pay a karmic price for this behavior.
I like to imagine that a day will come where all three Lit women I fantasize about seeing naked post nudes. And I will miss then all. Because justice.
I really should have learned by now. But at (about to be) 44 years old it's probably too late for me.
I hear thatI’m tired. Not physically tired but mentally and emotionally tired.
Can I talk you down to a more believable 60/40?Meh sometimes you need to be a troll or smartass. It’s 80/20. Be a good person 80% of the time and let it fly the other 20%. It’s not good to hold it all in!
Chica, don't let it get you. Fucking monster wants to hold you down. Kick it in the balls and laugh in its face....I’m tired. Not physically tired but mentally and emotionally tired.
I love you....who we shanking?![]()
bIpIv'a'Buenos dias
Yeah if you know it is AI beforehand that is going to bias you big time.Not my cup of tea, but I was very biased going in.
And one can only eat so much chicken casserole. Food is comfort.Thinking people are well meaning, I know, but we only have a limited amount of space in the fridge and freezer and our stomachs.
That's just wanker behavior, Fuck em' whoever they areI just wish people were nicer to each other....
I didn't do or say anything to you, and yet you've taken that as an invitation to just be rude and down right nasty publicly....
Were you so hurt by the fact that I didn't engage in your bullshit and shenanigans that you felt obligated to just be mean?
So sorry you don't have anything better to do, lives to change and loves to give....
Yes! This is what I’m going to do next time someone I know loses someone. Much better idea than having three chicken pot pies and three dozen rolls - for 2-3 people, one of whom only eats a little.And one can only eat so much chicken casserole. Food is comfort.
I prefer to wait a week or two once everything is done and over, then send a gift certificate to a local restaurant so they can order some to go food when they don't have the strength or will to cook.
Yes! This is what I’m going to do next time someone I know loses someone. Much better idea than having three chicken pot pies and three dozen rolls - for 2-3 people, one of whom only eats a little.
That’s what I ended up doingIf you have a local buy nothing group on FB and are looking for some time to fill, you could probably post and then hand out a few meals for those who can pick up so it’s easy/gas free for you.
I was a huge busy body after losing my mom and this is something I did to dissociate. It helped, helping people.
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Thinking people are well meaning, I know, but we only have a limited amount of space in the fridge and freezer and our stomachs.
And one can only eat so much chicken casserole. Food is comfort.
I prefer to wait a week or two once everything is done and over, then send a gift certificate to a local restaurant so they can order some to go food when they don't have the strength or will to cook.
When it was fresh we all kept telling everyone to not bring food because we thought we would have too much. Apparently we told too many people. Thankfully Mom's best friend didn't listen, so we had one meal provided. Next time, I'll tell them to offer again later. lolPeople want to be there and help out right away, because they have good hearts. Unfortunately, a month, two months, later, no one stops by anymore.
Not just food, but checking in to see how they're doing. Helping with yard work. Take kids out for the day to give parents some space. So many things can be done to help them and to show them we care.
That's a good idea! Have the best friend be in charge of a sign-up sheet. Just give them her number!When it was fresh we all kept telling everyone to not bring food because we thought we would have too much. Apparently we told too many people. Thankfully Mom's best friend didn't listen, so we had one meal provided. Next time, I'll tell them to offer again later. lol
A friend from Iran said that it's considered rude there to even talk about death. Her feelings got hurt when her son talked about what he would do with her house after she was gone. This conversation would put her over the edge. lolThat's a good idea! Have the best friend be in charge of a sign-up sheet. Just give them her number!
*makes notes to self*
I thought we would lose my mom in November. I still find myself weepy to think about. But, we've had to have tough discussions since then. So I know what her wishes are in certain cases. It's not fun, but necessary.A friend from Iran said that it's considered rude there to even talk about death. Her feelings got hurt when her son talked about what he would do with her house after she was gone. This conversation would put her over the edge. lol