The 'ethics' of casual 'bdsm'

[warrior queen]

It's not the colour of the skin that makes a "nigger" out of a man ...

... it is the hatred.

surely, someone such as yourself has a better arguement than this?
after all, you claim to be the only 'true love and BDSM' expert on these pages!

should think this comment might get you kicked out of yet another site!

 

[RuReal]

Ohh I have a new question.

You call yourself the Nigger of BDSM?

Explain what that means exactly as I am a bit confused as to where you are going?

 

[BLoved]

If we don't believe what you believe, this is what we get:

Kill yourself.

EDIT: Why you bring this shit to this message board i have no fucking idea.

Cease being a whining fuck (I dont doubt that you are) and sort your shit out. Fucking SORT. IT OUT. You have a blend of deluded, patronising, pseudointellectual ignorance that gets up the collective nose of this messageboard like lines of cayenne pepper, and it does not surprise me one bit that your shit is fucked up (you come across as a maniac)


fuck youuuuuuuu

Almost 75 pages of it now.

You cannot respect anyone who doesn't believe in the 'ethics' of casual 'bdsm'

Doesn't matter how honest, honourable and sincere we are in the way we practise bdsm, or the way we uphold our beliefs.

You will never respect us.

You will never give us peace.

You will never allow us to discuss our issues without your cruelty hi-jacking the thread.

We have almost 75 pages of you to prove it.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

If we don't believe what you believe, this is what we get:



Almost 75 pages of it now.

You cannot respect anyone who doesn't believe in the 'ethics' of casual 'bdsm'

Doesn't matter how honest, honourable and sincere we are in the way we practise bdsm, or the way we uphold our beliefs.

You will never respect us.

You will never give us peace.

You will never allow us to discuss our issues without your cruelty hi-jacking the thread.

We have almost 75 pages of you to prove it.

Who is "we" and "us"?

you and the voices in your head?

 

[Rosie_Riveter]

When did the transition to first person plural occur?

 

[warrior queen]

Who is "we" and "us"?

you and the voices in your head?

he can't (and won't) be able to answer you!

i suspect he meant 'me' and 'me'.
there seems to be only one person within his sphere (excepting when he pulls in another 'vulnerable' person to agree with him.)

 

[BLoved]

Who is "we" and "us"?

you and the voices in your head?

Do you really think I'm the only person on the planet who practises bdsm and rejects the 'ethics' of casual 'bdsm'?

 

[warrior queen]

Do you really think I'm the only person on the planet who practises bdsm and rejects the 'ethics' of casual 'bdsm'?

untill you show this forum someone else...... well, yes, actually.
so far, the only person who has agreed with you, is YOU.

edited to add.....for a while, i thought your beloved might actually be posting, even if it was under your name - but now i suspect that wasn't really anyone other than yourself.

until then, i'm afraid my rational mind is leaning heavily toward the majority.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Do you really think I'm the only person on the planet who practises bdsm and rejects the 'ethics' of casual 'bdsm'?

you're the only one in this thread.

 

[Bette_coquette]

Who is "we" and "us"?

you and the voices in your head?

I was going to ask this same question and decided against it.

 

[Oncebeloved]

I was Robert's "beloved".

I left him because he was not who i thought he was.
He changed over the time we spent together and i realized i no longer loved him. It was a difficult decision that i came to but one that i am glad i made.

Robert is stuck in his ways.
He hates change and anything that has to do with change. In way i started to pity him. He still has not gotten over the losses in his life. He tries to cover them up with his belief that Love will cure all. But I realized it doesn't.

I knew if i told Robert all this, he would have just went about his life as if i said nothing at all. Its Robert's way or its the wrong way. I couldn't live like that. i will always have a place in my heart for Robert.

But i am glad i left. It was one of the best decisions i could have made for myself.

Take care of yourself Robert.

 

[Bette_coquette]

Oh, good grief.

 

[RuReal]

I was Robert's "beloved".

I left him because he was not who i thought he was.
He changed over the time we spent together and i realized i no longer loved him. It was a difficult decision that i came to but one that i am glad i made.

Robert is stuck in his ways.
He hates change and anything that has to do with change. In way i started to pity him. He still has not gotten over the losses in his life. He tries to cover them up with his belief that Love will cure all. But I realized it doesn't.

I knew if i told Robert all this, he would have just went about his life as if i said nothing at all. Its Robert's way or its the wrong way. I couldn't live like that. i will always have a place in my heart for Robert.

But i am glad i left. It was one of the best decisions i could have made for myself.

Take care of yourself Robert.

Hmm now is this one post real or a fake? I suspect fake, but why would one bother to do that?

 

[warrior queen]

I was Robert's "beloved".

I left him because he was not who i thought he was.
He changed over the time we spent together and i realized i no longer loved him. It was a difficult decision that i came to but one that i am glad i made.

Robert is stuck in his ways.
He hates change and anything that has to do with change. In way i started to pity him. He still has not gotten over the losses in his life. He tries to cover them up with his belief that Love will cure all. But I realized it doesn't.

I knew if i told Robert all this, he would have just went about his life as if i said nothing at all. Its Robert's way or its the wrong way. I couldn't live like that. i will always have a place in my heart for Robert.

But i am glad i left. It was one of the best decisions i could have made for myself.

Take care of yourself Robert.

how incredibly convenient!
post no. 1 from the 'oncebeloved' is so insanely well-timed!

and i note - BLoved was showing as offline. then oncebeloved came online. now BLoved is back and oncebeloved is offline.

 

[Stella_Omega]

BWAHHH!

it's a soap opera!
it's "The Days Of As The Young And Restless World Turns!"

 

[warrior queen]

Hmm now is this one post real or a fake? I suspect fake, but why would one bother to do that?

someone who needs to be validated.
let's see how BLoved attacks the newly formed 'oncebeloved', shall we!?

 

[Bette_coquette]

how incredibly convenient!
post no. 1 from the 'oncebeloved' is so insanely well-timed!

and i note - BLoved was showing as offline. then oncebeloved came online. now BLoved is back and oncebeloved is offline.

*gasp* You don't think he's staging this, do you? Say it ain't sooooo!!

 

[warrior queen]

BWAHHH!

it's a soap opera!
it's "The Days Of As The Young And Restless World Turns!"

this is way better than 'days'!
at least twice now i've hurt myself laughing.

 

[Netzach]

So where does someone who doesn't believe in casual 'bdsm' belong?

I've got ImOnIt telling me to kill myself.

I've got the people in this discussion telling me to 'go back where ya come from, freak!'

28 years of experience with bdsm in loving relationships and I have people telling me I'm a phony who knows nothing about bdsm.

Four sites banned me for daring to speak about why I don't believe in casual 'bdsm'.

So much for diversity in bdsm.

So where does someone who doesn't believe in casual 'bdsm' belong?

There are myriad people here who limit their SM contact to within intimate relationships - I'd even argue a majority actually do this.

They manage to do this without having a coronary every time someone else does something they wouldn't.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Four sites banned me for daring to speak about why I don't believe in casual 'bdsm'.

they banned you because once youd had your say, you said it again.
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[Kikori]

they banned you because once youd had your say, you said it again.
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I think that line divides where the opinion ends and the spam begins. X3
I may be wrong.

 

[Homburg]

I think there is a conflict of interest between generating revenues and safety.

Oooookay. Look around you. It is possible that there is something in the room that is clear and mounted on the wall. If you look through it, the upper part will be blue/white if it is daytime, and black if it is night. You will likely see ground, probably trees. This item is called a "Window". What you see through the window is the outside world. Please make your acquaintance with it.

I say this because you apparently have no relationship with the outside world. Any organisation that is interested in generating sustainable revenues is HIGHLY interested in safety. Lack of safety produces insurance claims and lawsuits which are decidely inimicable to revenue.

Those of us who love, who reject the 'ethics' of casual 'bdsm' ...

... we're the niggers of bdsm.

Oh, I see that it is time to drink again. And a few more times as well as you used the same illogic in three more posts.

 

[ImOnIt]

Oooookay. Look around you. It is possible that there is something in the room that is clear and mounted on the wall. If you look through it, the upper part will be blue/white if it is daytime, and black if it is night. You will likely see ground, probably trees. This item is called a "Window". What you see through the window is the outside world. Please make your acquaintance with it.

I say this because you apparently have no relationship with the outside world. Any organisation that is interested in generating sustainable revenues is HIGHLY interested in safety. Lack of safety produces insurance claims and lawsuits which are decidely inimicable to revenue.



Oh, I see that it is time to drink again. And a few more times as well as you used the same illogic in three more posts.

What is the procedure to request a ban of a user?

*drinks*

 

[BLoved]

how incredibly convenient!
post no. 1 from the 'oncebeloved' is so insanely well-timed!

and i note - BLoved was showing as offline. then oncebeloved came online. now BLoved is back and oncebeloved is offline.

I've been here all along.

I'd like to ask Oncebeloved what my beloved and I did the night before she announced her decision.

 

[BLoved]

What is the procedure to request a ban of a user?

*drinks*

Kill yourself.

EDIT: Why you bring this shit to this message board i have no fucking idea.

Cease being a whining fuck (I dont doubt that you are) and sort your shit out. Fucking SORT. IT OUT. You have a blend of deluded, patronising, pseudointellectual ignorance that gets up the collective nose of this messageboard like lines of cayenne pepper, and it does not surprise me one bit that your shit is fucked up (you come across as a maniac)


fuck youuuuuuuu

Just so they know who's making that request.