❓ PLP Inquires❓

[lurkingguy1978]

The gents, too.
Wondering if guys build each other up when they go out.

If that happens, I've never seen it in the wild...

 

[AlwaysFara]

If that happens, I've never seen it in the wild...

Well. I’ve seen it on our little KIK group. So.

It can happen.

 

[inkandiridiumnibs]

07.08.19

Has there ever been a time in your life where you feel like you've "lost your sexy"? What caused that feeling? How did you get it back? If you've never lost your sexy, how do you keep the constant sex appeal/desire flowing????

Yes...

I will let you know when I figure it out

 

[Sh75]

Fara said it as well as or better than I could. I spent too many years being told I was unattractive - judged for everything I put in my mouth, as if starving myself was the answer to everything. That takes a heavy toll, and I believed it for years. I'm slowly coming back around - but it's one of those "one step forward, two back" situations. Every time I get rejected, ghosted, friend-zoned or passed over for something younger or more sparkly, it all comes rushing right back. Yes, I take pictures - and yes, some of them make me look great. But it's all about the angles - and for every one I post there are fifty that get deleted. It's a really slow process, trying to undo several decades of negative reinforcement.

God the angles comment made me laugh out loud, i know all about those unfortunately. But eventually even those genetically gifted motherfuckers will run out of angles and whats left is the beauty you possess inside. Those who are truly worth your time will be more interested in those more meaningful traits anyway and will bring you more joy than the interest of someone who you visually inspired to an erection lol

 

[lurkingguy1978]

Well. I’ve seen it on our little KIK group. So.

It can happen.

I don't consider that "the wild", my friend. I meant more IRL.

 

[AlwaysFara]

God the angles comment made me laugh out loud, i know all about those unfortunately. But eventually even those genetically gifted motherfuckers will run out of angles and whats left is the beauty you possess inside. Those who are truly worth your time will be more interested in those more meaningful traits anyway and will bring you more joy than the interest of someone who you visually inspired to an erection lol

This. What I find incredibly sexy is not the perfect bod.
We ALL like good angles, lighting, some of us, filters.
I have relationships here that have lasted years, both men and women, and they are each and every one beautiful because of who they are. Or, who they are to me.
Yes. Sappy as fuck, but a true story.

 

[AlwaysFara]

I don't consider that "the wild", my friend. I meant more IRL.

It’s more like the dysfunctional Brady Bunch.
I’m Jan.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

God the angles comment made me laugh out loud, i know all about those unfortunately. But eventually even those genetically gifted motherfuckers will run out of angles and whats left is the beauty you possess inside. Those who are truly worth your time will be more interested in those more meaningful traits anyway and will bring you more joy than the interest of someone who you visually inspired to an erection lol

Wisdom is also attractive.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

07.08.19

Has there ever been a time in your life where you feel like you've "lost your sexy"? What caused that feeling? How did you get it back? If you've never lost your sexy, how do you keep the constant sex appeal/desire flowing????

I'm one of those that never had it. I had zero confidence with women when I was young. Few "dates". I didn't have a pickup line, I couldn't charm a woman, I was not easy going and witty.

Even after I was married, I didn't have "sexy". I wondered what she saw in me.

I still wonder.

 

[lurkingguy1978]

It’s more like the dysfunctional Brady Bunch.
I’m Jan.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Bad Girls make pretty Good Girls, too.

Oh, ladies. You are all so lovely. Every single one.
We have to keep reminding ourselves and each other.

The gents, too.
Wondering if guys build each other up when they go out.
I know women have the rep of tearing each other down, but I don’t see that. I see far more building up.

Mostly, if the topic comes up, we talk about Sports or work, then drink hard liquor.

It's served us guys well for ten thousand years.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Mostly, if the topic comes up, we talk about Sports or work, then drink hard liquor.

It's served us guys well for ten thousand years.

Has it?

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

It’s more like the dysfunctional Brady Bunch.
I’m Jan.

Jan, goes on the "who would you pick" list with: Velma, Betty Rubble, Mary Ann and on and on.

 

[lurkingguy1978]

Has it?

Nope. But tradition has inertia which is glacial to change.

We as a gender suck like that sometimes.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

Has it?

Well, we have managed to avoid talking about feelings and stuff, so there's that.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Jan, goes on the "who would you pick" list with: Velma, Betty Rubble, Mary Ann and on and on.

The rest of the B sides. I’m fine with it.

 

[AlwaysFara]

Nope. But tradition has inertia which is glacial to change.

We as a gender suck like that sometimes.

Well, we have managed to avoid talking about feelings and stuff, so there's that.

So, Lit is good, then, yes?
What is different about women on Lit and the women in your life, besides random boob shots?

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

It’s more like the dysfunctional Brady Bunch.
I’m Jan.

I'm Cindy! Or was.

Or maybe more like, Cindy if she'd gone abroad for a year, met an older man, and came back Changed.

 

[AlwaysFara]

I'm Cindy! Or was.

Or maybe more like, Cindy if she'd gone abroad for a year, met an older man, and came back Changed.

Cindy who came back as Sindy.

I miss you.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Cindy who came back as Sindy.

I miss you.

Ah ha ha! Sinnndy.

 

[lurkingguy1978]

So, Lit is good, then, yes?
What is different about women on Lit and the women in your life, besides random boob shots?

I could write paragraphs on that. I'm not. No one wants to hear me blather.

There is no difference between women on Lit and women in my life. I respect you all. Think you're worthy of that respect. I'm honored to call a small number of you my friends, and I love you dearly. Boobs are a bonus, IRL and otherwise.

 

[TANSTAAFL58]

The rest of the B sides. I’m fine with it.

B-sides. I'm gonna steal that for a story. (Which may never be published).

So, Lit is good, then, yes?
What is different about women on Lit and the women in your life, besides random boob shots?

It's that Lit Woman Attitude. You are open and speak your minds. There's much less guessing as to what you're really talking about.

But random boob shots, like fat bottomed girls, make the world go 'round.

 

[AlpineFresco]

Wondering if guys build each other up when they go out.

It's very rare, AFAICT. We do broadly compete with each other - even when it's not overt - which I think is a terrible shame. We seem to fear building up someone else is going to be perceived as a weakness in ourselves. Utter bullshit, but there we go.

 

[AlwaysFara]

It's very rare, AFAICT. We do broadly compete with each other - even when it's not overt - which I think is a terrible shame. We seem to fear building up someone else is going to be perceived as a weakness in ourselves. Utter bullshit, but there we go.

Women compete, but I’ve seen so much less tearing down lately. I dunno.
That is a shame , you’re right. There’s a few guys here that I think would be great friends, if they knew each other.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Women compete, but I’ve seen so much less tearing down lately. I dunno.
That is a shame , you’re right. There’s a few guys here that I think would be great friends, if they knew each other.

It's one of the things that makes me instantly like a guy here. If they can see past the boobs and boners and be friendly with other guys.